so when i introduced myself a few days back i said i liked a girl who runs a bar but couldn't muster up the courage to talk to her and totally wussed out. but then our common friend told me that he showed my texts to her and changed my name to a period so she wouldnt know who i was. (about me wanting to talk to her and take her out to dinner and stuff, also about me not talking to her cause i have a gf and i felt that the girl wasn't interested and she was a running a business i know im making too many excuses and not just opening her.) anyway, so my friend showed the texts and the girl said she told my friend not to tell her who i was cause she wants to like me as the guy who doesn't like her? or she doesn't want to know who i am cause she's thinking about an ideal guy? im totally AFC-ing this chick

i don't know what to do i need help, my friend's celebrating in her bar tomorrow and i dont even drink but i need like a solid game plan!

big thanks to you masters out there!

I have no idea what you're trying to say.

But I can tell you that you shouldn't just wuss out. You see her at the bar already, you want to muster the courage to talk to her, just do this one trick: Find a random guy or girl that you don't have interest in, approach them and introduce yourself to them. Talk to them and have a quick conversation just to slow down your heart rate. (Additional steps would be to point out to the girl you wanted to talk to, and ask these random guys on their opinion on just about anything really). Once you've settled your heart rate, go over there and talk to her.

This is the best way I can think of. Hope this message finds you well, good luck out there!


With love,
Matt

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