Ok, I've just move back to my hometown where there are plenty of good bar with varies of people from different background sure as townies, college students, farmers, rich snots (or lakers as we called them, because they're commonly from around a big lake). That's where I'm comfort with because there are a bunch of good friends I like to hangout with so I feel like it's time to reinvent in my game.

There's something I've always notice when I do people watching when I'm bored or have no one else to talk with. That's how I learn about people and sometimes to amuse myself, which is a norm in deaf culture. It does make some feel awkward sure, but women seems to be the one who is affected the most. That often happen unintentionally, they've confused me play with their heart instead of brain. Some would approach me without say anything at all and drop a hint that I can easily recognize but pretend that I didn't notice it and continue on with my business. I think I've seem plenty of it and want to make advantage of it, to either break the tension or make her fall into trap of being attracted. I don't mind failures, what matter to me is learn from them. I use my cellphone as a way to communication and I'm still figure what's a clever way to do this or any other idea that'll work for me. If I don't make sense, please tell me to be more explicit since English isn't my primary language.

Before I get a response, let me clarify, YES I am deaf, and no, I'm not good at lipreading, contrary to popular belief many deaf people are horrible at this. Please don't act like you know what you talk and give me a fast-and-easy solution and get over with it, or get too excited and ask me about my deafness, what I can do and can't do. I want to cut the chase and discuss ideas about how to make myself more unique in seductive manner that make me stand out of crowd. Like I said in the past I'll come here repeatedly to improve my overall life, partially how to handle women.