I started in this community about a week back, and learnt some openers and DHVs last week to practice on a weekend by going to a club. I thought it would be better If I had a wing there. But all my friends ditched me.

I just dont feel like going alone to a club on friday night, as I dont like the reaction ppl will give me when I am standing in line. I dont want to come off as a predator on prowl..Suggest how should i go about it If my friends dont accompany me even this week.

Rigs

When I have gone out by myself in the past it has been the best time. It forces you to not be a wall flower and to talk to be more social. A wing is great, but its almost like a home base to go back to and sometimes can keep you from talking to people.

Someone posted this a while back, but even walking up to a group and saysing..... "Whats up guys? Im rigs. Im just out meeting some new people tonite." Or some shit like that... Not having a wing isn't always a bad thing. You wont look like a predator when you go out by yourself. If you go out with 3-4 more guys, then you look like a pack of predator's.