Well im kind of stuck in two different cases that happened in this weekend.

1)On Friday I was at a mall with a friend and in the moment I was on the phone he met two friends ( I did not know them ) , and one of them exchanged a brief look up to me and greeted me with a smile while i continue on the phone and then they were gone . I added her on facebook and she accepted the same day , but now i dont remember any good opener at facebook , any ideas?

2)On the same day i´ve gone to a disco , and I was there with a friend .. there was an interesting girl wich i lent the lighter and she had the courtesy to come thank me .. My friend knew her and presented us:
She : " . Hello and thanks again my name is Carolina "
Me: " Hello Carolina , you know that to find you in facebook i need your surname" ( I say this smiling )
She : " Fernandes ,the third name have to be you discovering it " ( also smiling and then back to the group of friends )

Then I got facebook too, but I also dont think any good opener, because I know it will be important to get a positive response. Ideas?

Regards

with that girl from mall you don't need any opener cuz you were introduced by your friend. Just start to talk to her like you know her forever. Go indirect, do not tell "hi, you cute, me horny, let's fuck", go with canned material, the cube could be a fun way to make her even more interested in you.

But to give you an option how to open her, POKE HER!

The girl introduced to me was the disco one.. Maybe she wont remember it, it doesnt matter anyway .. Cube in the facebook do you think a good idea?

The mall i dont know her, i just know who she is because of my friend, and she just know that im the friend of him..

The one of the disco i was thinking something like :
"After all it was not so difficult to get the third name , next time you could make it more interesting / challenging things."

Ps: Im portuguese, and i dont pratice english for a long time

here are some of my facebook routines.
1.open her with message or poker her.
2.open her with a general club photo and tag her.
3.open her with some a status update.

my personal favorite is to poker her. She may poker back in witch case o message her and say "how rude of you to poke me, i am such a sweet guy and you poke"
she may like something from my facebook page in witch case i message her "awwww how sweet of you. i poked you and respond in such a sweet way. your mother did a very nice job"
she may message you in that case you are golden.

To increase my chances, i also like to upload a photo (general club photo with a lot of people, a very crowed place) on her wall "can you find yourself here?"

The cube on facebook is ok, even better over the phone, talking not texting! the cube may take a few min so she may hear you out just to be polite but she will be very impressed after. Tested myself

"Poking" is barely noticed and tagging someone in a status unless they are a good friend of yours is entirely too much. Best thing i can say is open up an IM with something random such as "damn Brocos, you think for 2 mill a year they know how to play a game better than that" or something else that might interest her.

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

This was actually our conversation until now :

Me: "Well im glad that i found you but would like a better challenge nextime "
She : " Sorry, but im not understanding why are you saying that " (i think she forgot, it was in a disco , its ok)
Me: " We met each other in the disco (... )" ( the history like o told here )
she: " I didnt remember that, but got a flash back now while you were talking. I wasnt trying to challenging you because i have my own challenge at home. I only said it because it seems ok in that time and i werent very well " ( drunk i think )
me: " Yes, that flashbacks sometimes seems like "Hangover " " (i've tried to be a little bit funny)
me: " its you and me, the domestic life challenge me all the time! You seemed to be ok and cute, but after all , alcool trick's us sometimes "

I think i was too agressive this last message and she saw it and didnt replied... Please some critiques