I was wondering, but from my limited experience, it's flirting in the initial encounter, leading to a number, vs. a full-barrel ramp-up to sex. The difference is just in shades, yes, that and not wanting the girl so spooked by your sexuality she won't call back once she's showered.

Sparking that initial interest takes flirtation, in any event, and at least soon after her signs of interest, you should physically reciprocate, correct?

I'm not interested in going direct, just solid numbers-getting, but am trying to understand what exactly I'm trying to do.

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I can do that; I'm tired of nothing happening in extended conversations, especially when there's some physical barrier between us, like the case with hired guns in a booth, and there's no way to kino without reaching, (which I have done to a fair amount of success).

I guess that goal is to smoothly ramp up tension, but I've not quite found the balance. A girl quickly disengaged despite showing shy signs of interests when I touched her too much, or dare I say, too overtly, looking while touching, and making to much of a deal over it.

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