i'll just tell yall one of the 4, and please, experts out there, give me some hints or just simply slap n critique me this newbie!

the girl working at 7-11:
Alright, i've been going to 7-11 for the past two sundays right after the gym. This girl behind the counter (probably's few years older than me or so, an asian as well), she's a beauty. The only thing is that, she doesn't SMILE. I wonder if that has anything to do with she working night shift, and scared or worried about pple stealing or smth like that so she has to front or something.

anyways, the first time i saw her, wasn't anything. She didn't smile or wutever.

but tonight when i went in the store, she said hello or wutever it was. I didn't bother at all, i just grabbed my drink, n checked out n left. I didn't give her any noticeable guestures or eye contacts. She still has the same old expressionless face.

I wanna try to hit on her on this coming sunday.
I'm thinking first thing i'd do when i walk in, is smile and hello at her whatnot. Then after i got my drink n checking out, i'll just ask her like: "how long have u been working here? i see u every time i come here."

continue option #1:
then i'd say this next: "why don't u smile? are u always angry or something? i as a customer, feel kinda depressed when i see ur face."

OR
continue option #2:
"why don't u smile? you've got a beautiful face, but without the smile u look scary"

and since she's asian, i can speak several asian languages, i'll just ask where she's from, n continue on with trying to speak her native language or smth n see how it goes from there.

SO, A LONG POST. Please critique on my opener fellas!

As far as just walking in and sayin Hi, you should do that every where and to everyone you can. It helps get ur social juices flowing and is good practice.

"i as a customer, feel kinda depressed when i see ur face." I think is a lil harsh but i think girls respond well to things no1 says to them. So maybe something along the lines of "hey i get the impression you smile alot outside of work because you dont smile here." See wut kinda response you get if she smiles and starts talkin are just smiles you mentioned you know a few asian languages, so instead of askin her which one she speaks DHV (demonstrate higher value) by tellin her that u speak all those languages.

If she is interested she will wake up and hav a conversation with. Try to watch her body language and check for IOIs. Good luck

What you should do is open her up with her native language. God damn, women find that sexy. . .

As for the opener. . . Roll with this one. I use it and it works EVERY time. (you should like those odds).

"Hey, can you do me a favor?" - Me
"And what's that?" - Her
"Can you smile? I bet it would look good on you." - Me

Good luck!

wo
thx to Joeba,
i almost forgot about DHV!
and yeh... wut i planned to say 'd sound a bit too harsh to her... since she works there = =''' and TRUE, i sud say hi to anyone, not just the person i intend to talk to.

jay man, that opener seems pretty fly, but i'll need to work my confidence up for that one ha... if i can't say it naturally...it'd just be plain awkwardness @@.


and so far... one of my 4 games has failed, not this 7-11 one though.
it's the one in my school ha ha, but i'll work on it! never give up.

i appreciate both of u's comments!

i nailed it!
the opening w/ the 7-11 girl!
it was easier than i thought...
i guess an AFC just thinks too much when it comes to girls~

i was all sweaty, smelly n whatnot, just got off gym.~
my usual thing is going to 7-11 after that,
n i see her again.

i went directly like: "hey how long have u been working here? cuz everytime when i got off gym, i see u!"

note this, before, she never smiled or anything, but as soon as i asked her this question, she started to smile!

she said: "half a year."
then i asked her where she's from,
she told me, and started to chat a bit w/ me~
that was the first time i see her smile, and hear her voice haha!!!
i didn't ask her number or name though.
but i will do it on this coming sunday again!

but today, i was suppose to work on my other target, yet, i didn't... i'll have to pass that onto next week...

this is a good opportunity for you, because you know she will be there the next time you go there. now all you gotta do is reel her in

good for u..congrats.. im asian so i give a depth on how they operate..it may be hard at times but color is jus skin deep..i guess u already break down the "bitch radar" now its time to zoom into the objective..asian likes to eat .. nuthin interest them more like food..ask about asian cuisine she may recommend

den ask her " is it ok for u bring me to this places cause i really like to try those thing u mentioned" indirectly u already ask her on a date..she jus need to set up a place and you jus set up the time/day..

hopefully u like the asian cuisine .. can be hot on ur tongue..

Hugo Blackhart

that_guy, i'll seal this deal haha!

hugo, thx man, this is actually a good idea!

and guess wut,
since i didn't ask her phone number, name, msn last time,
i went to see her again.

my opener was: "hey do u remember me? u told me u r from blablabla"
she 1st replied with: "i told a lotta pple im from blablabla"
then i remained silent, just smiled at her
n she continued while checking out the stuff i bought: "didn't u forget about this chocolate bar last time when u checked out?"
(i was thinking to myself like, haha, she still rmbs me, and she smiled all the way through)

and to be honest fellas, this is my very first time, makin' conversation w/ a stranger girl on purpose of getting to know her or more ; )

we chatted, she stepped away from the counter, man she's short when she's off the counter haha, but not tiny, and still cute ! i have a sense that she's a bit older than me damn

then i pulled out my cell like : "can i have ur number"
she gave me directly, so i said good nite n left.

LATER when i checked on my cell, FUCK, i misdialled LOL... one digit lesser... i was like wtf sud i do...and i think of this like... just fuck it, go back n chat again.

so i went back, with a smiling face like: "hey, is ur number blablabla, i think i missed one digit."
n she filled in while smiling, n so, i even used that chance to ask her msn, n during these processes, she DIDN"T HESITATE a bit. Although i was turning SHY gradually, but i sensed that she mite think im cute that way.
that day after the workout, i go home showered n put on some fitter tshirt, looked buff as hell haha
(i haven't added her or phone her, since only 1 day away. i heard it's better to call the girl back 2 days later, so u don seem too desperate)


and abt this korean girl from my school's convenient store, i chatted w/ her today, she was responsive, n responded more than wut she should have... but in the end, i didn't ask her name or number.
i'll do that next week.

but with all these, my confidence level's been building up haha.
i love this.
and i tried to talk to hot girls that i don use to do so in the lecture, i just said wutever, as long as i have a smile on, we all had good conversations. i think im getting the groove of it now, since im not an ugly guy, a somewhat tiny bit attractive i guess XD