First of all guys sorry about my english because unfortunately I am not a native American.
I am new at PUA reading books, watching videos and practing on the field.

1) I read in The Game book that after opening a set group with men and women you should focus your attention on the men and forget the target (back to the target, etc) but what always happen to me is that the girl target feels that she is not talking to anyone anymore, gets bored after I talking too much to other guys and leave. How can I avoid this ? How can I do after talking and giving attention to other guys and not let the girl target to leave.

2) When I open a group set with men and women I stay afraid because I think that the girl target is with her boyfriend or someone either, and I dont wanna fight with someone. What to do to know if she is with her boyfriend on group ?

3) This is one the most important, I talk with girls a lot day and night after opener, but I always stay talking like friends and we dont go foward, I guess I am not recognizing IOIs or something else, I dont know. How can I get out of these friendly talkative to move to the next step, seduction, phone number or kiss ?

Sorry about these lot of questions guys. I guess you guys could help me.

Thanks y'all. Be safe.

Well, first off, you don't have to be American (native or otherwise) to speak English For example, I'm Australian, and I consider English to come from England. Pet peeve of mine. Anyways...

While it's good form to not go straight for the obvious "target" and keep people wondering and interested about you, sounds like you're clearly just getting comfortable talking to the guys and spending way too long doing this. Eventually you're going to have to step out of your comfort zone and direct the conversation to her some way.

Ah see I knew you were doing this out of fear. Well if she's with her boyfriend, this will be made known to you very quickly. If all you're doing is talking and people can see that, this shouldn't be a problem, especially in a group. The boyfriend will put his arm around her, or she will mention "Oh have you met my boyfriend, his name's Jack" and then you will know. If you bail too quickly at that point, it'll be awkward, but you should just let the conversation run it's course and then politely move on and say you better be getting back to your friends, nice chatting, have a good night.

You may still be in the polite talking mode, where she's talking to you, to be nice, because you seem nice, polite, haven't done anything wrong - and yet are not standing out in any way. You should challenge yourself to think of interesting topics, try leading questions such as "what would your dream job be" but it shouldn't be out of the blue. Basically you should use the conversation to show how passionate you are about topics (assuming you hit on one that you are both passionate about) and setting up another meeting, preferably regarding one of the things you're going to do together that you were talking about.

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