So there's this girl, I call her Starbucksgirl. I first saw her there doing school work with her friends. I was at the table beside here with my friend. Wanting to approach her and strike up an opener, but I kept choking haha. And my silly little friend didn't even be my wing. (I've been his wing a couple of times).

I kept seeing her in the same mall every now and then, and whenever there was a clear opportunity, I choke and flee away. Later on I found out she lives around my block, and well. I really can't tell but almost everytime I see her, she sees me too and she'd usually do something like stalling.

Like one time I was about to withdraw money from an SPAM and didn't realize she was right in front of me. When she turned around after her withdrawal of money, she staggered and looked me in the eye and walked behind me. I couldn't stop to notice but she parked herself behind me, digging her bag. I don't know but it looked almost like stalling. Then she had a friend there and they talked, by the time I was done, and turned around , she stopped talking to her friend and stared at me.

She's around 16 and I'm 19 hah.

So basically, she's a perfect 10, and some stupid part of my brain thinks she likes me, and another part prevents me from approaching her. Help.

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Honestly its hard to help you the approach anxiety is strong but if you know what to say it does make it al little easier so since you think she is attracted you can try hey stop flirting with me people are beginning to stare its a cocky funny direct if that's to scary because you do need a certain level of inner game to go direct try a canned opinion opener when she is with her friends remember speak loud and stand straight never lean in

the way i've opened a girl at starbucks is simply asking if the seat next to her / in front of her is taken. gauge her reaction if it's a friendly invite sit down and then stir up a friendly convo, easy enough.

i've done it and it works like a charm, coffee shops are great places to open up girls, they're pretty open to it to.

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If you are that scared of one young girl, it's not the girl for you. Please leave her alone or you will taint how she views guys. At the age of 16 that's going to happen b/c you will probably weird her out. You weird me out just reading the story.

Yes, shes likely somewhat infatuated with an older guy if she's doing what you say. Maybe she barely notices and was waiting at the SPAM for her friend. But you need to find something more average looking around your age. There's too much difference in 19 and 16 from a sociological prospective . 27 and 30 is a little more workable.