Disqualifiers like “You know what? I am too toxic for you, you’d never want to hang out with me.”
"Too bad I'm gay or you'd be SO my TYPE."
Later on, what antidote can we use to get rid of the previous disqualifiers?

I'd like a context on what experiences have led you to posting this. If you've just been reading about it, you're barking up the wrong tree, you should be focusing on the image you give off first. If you've tried these, and you've had trouble - that would be an interesting story in itself, which I could give more helpful advice on if I read it.

If you say you're gay, well you've just lied to them, so that's wierd. Maybe you could come back and say "Oh that's something I usually say to prevent X from happening" where X better be some pretty good excuse. I wouldn't use such a thing myself anyway.

And the toxic thing - why would you depreciate yourself like that? I can see how something along the lines of being soo wacky that sometimes you get carried away, which could still be seen as a good thing in a personality, but toxic sounds like you've got issues. NO ONE WANTS THAT.

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They are from mystery method.

Credit to Style for a lovely way to get away with the "gay disqualifier"

PUA:*Physical escalation*
HB:"I thought you were gay!"
PUA:"I was"

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Hahah, ok that's pretty funny Especially if it comes off as one big joke...

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Ah ok. So you've been researching, and posting a question about researching.

That's not a bad thing, but really you're fussing over pennies when you should just be working with the bottom dollar.

Go out, try stuff, and come back and talk about any problems you had, or anything that didn't work out. That's the only way you'll make real progress.

Just reading and talking about "facts" is just going to make you insecure about actually trying.

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Generally girls appreciate it when you come with the intent that you find them attractive and you want to be alone with them, no excuses, no apologies. They can then place you in the category of a sexual option rather than any of the other millions of categories.