whats a good opener at the gym? i know its a bad time to bother people, but im in good shape and girls give me ioi (idk what its called i think ioi) all the time. so what can i say to start a convo without sounding interrupting of a workout or annoying?

Whatever you do, go with a compliment such as hey I've seen you in here for a whole and I can tell you're getting in really good shape...high five her and be cool. Dont go up and start correcting her on a workout.

As long as your cool about it go with it. I literally talk to 10-15 ppl every time I work out so girls generally want to know me because I have friends there. Its alot more natural to talk to girls at the gym if u naturally talk to ppl at the gym all the time.

I see guys that never socialize at all go try to talk to a girl and get embarrassed and shut down all the time.

If you play any sports, say she looks like she would be good at whatever and that you are always looking for good players.

damn, thats good... im definetly gonna approach some people..... not just girls.

can you be more specific in the things that i should say? what do you say exactly?

i suggest you don't look for specifics, when you start getting hooked on specifics and things don't work your way you won't know what to do.

try understanding concepts, concepts you can apply anywhere, anytime, and of your own volition

but you are at a gym, there are a million topics you can talk about... diets, workouts, routines, sports (ufc, soccer, football, etc), with guys you can talk about women, with women you can just be chill and talk about nothing, you can talk about weekends... what else do you need?

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from my experience, go indirect. women do not like to be hit on blatantly at the gym...

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One easy way to break the ice is to ask them.to wave at you or something when they are done with a machine so you can use it.

Of course....if you're not going to use it then this is gay.

Then next time tell her to alternate sets with you or something. You really do have to be very natural and indirect. Like fury said, they don't like being messed with at the gym very much.

+1 on the talk to everybody thing, as then when you get an opportunity to speak to your set it will flow & appear normal/natural. random girls you've no interest in are the best to warm up on

as for gym openers, i always found "so what are you training for?" a good one.

if the situation lands right, the best one is when there's a douche nearby who's making loud moans & grunts when lifting, and you make eye contact with your set and smile in mutual laughter at the douche.
then you can open verbally with "if he keeps making those noises he's gonna have to pay for it"

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