Ok so quick background I've never been to bad with the ladies but mostly it's been meeting them through mutual friends I'm kind of sick of that dependence and need to go at it on my own. Recently moved to a knew city where I am very limited to the people I know. Ended up bagging a HB 8 pretty quick but I did the whole one-itties or whatever. So here is the deal and where I need your help, Over the weekend I added a friend of my cousins GF on Facebook she accepted and I left it at that two days Tuesday night she sends me a message " Hey your last name sounds familiar" Now I know this girl knows of me and knows my cousin (same last name) so I just replied with "Yea it should, I'm (insert cousins name) cousin." She replies with " lol that's what I thought. Well pleasure to meet you " I just left it at that and now I want to open her up but I'm really struggling on what to say to her I've never done the online thing but I want to give it a shot. Suggestions?

If she messaged first thats a major IOI. if she wasnt interested she wouldnt have bothered. I personally game 1000 times better in person, so I like to keep my messaging short. So if she said " lol that's what I thought. Well pleasure to meet you" with a smiley, the smiley clearly shows she wants your D. just kidding, but you can say something like "well, we haven't met... yet" keep implying that youre going to meet up. don't ask, tell her. so instead of saying "if we meet" say "when we meet". Only thing is she might not feel comfortable meeting a complete stranger, and thats when you must game through messaging. but I would go for the meet up right away. and no more one-itis, it will ruin your life, trust me. Other PUA's are alot more experienced than me, but this is my 2 cents.

I thought the same thing about the IOI. I guess I just have to game her on FB until I get her to agree to go out. I don't think it would be too difficult. Any good openers or routines that work on FB?

You definately can do it, dont overthink it too much because she's already interested. If gaming over messaging isnt a specific strength of yours, i just wouldnt do it. When this happened to me, I told her i didnt enjoy chatting over facebook, and left my number because i check it more often. she then tried to tell me to text her. i waited a couple days, texted her to hang out at a party which we did and gamed her the whole time since she didnt know anyone.