how do you guys deal with the bitchy 8s, 9s and 10s? I know it would be ideal to use a neg, but a way to open to show that you're not really interested in them... you know?

or when you try an opener and kind of just get a bitchy response from them? using a witty neg would feel weird...

i'm also in HS so nothing too "peacocky" or too "night game" lol

SpaceOut, here's something not a lot of guys do...that is stating the obvious to get into the know that you understand her world and what it's like to be hit on.

For example, if I'm at a club, I would simply approach a girl and just say, "Hey how many guys have hit on you tonight? Look you're a very attractive girl, and you know how it is guys come up to you with the most lame attempt...how do you handle?"

Something like that, it's honest and genuine and shows you're different and get her...far more effective than a fake fancy line.

That's how you disarm her bitch shield, then you're in and the rest just relax and be cool

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Bitch shields can be overcome with a light neg, as long as she isnt TOO bitchy, and your neg will have to be light. But what is better is actually validating the bitchiness and defending her. Saying "wow someone gets approached by a lot of guys and feels the need to fend them off huh? I totally get it." Or you could also say "aww you musta had a rough day today. I bet your usually a real sweetie arent you?"

With the neg you run the risk of it turning into a pissing contest, which defeats the purpose.

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It's usually if you're doing something wrong.

Being fuck ugly is often the catalyst lol

Generic approaches

Asking her where the toilet instead of asking the other 18 people you walked past.

Get your shit together externally and internally and you come across less "bitches"

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