I gave this quite a thought last night. I just need you experienced guys to tell me what and how should I say this thing quickly and in a way that will make sense and how to follow it up later on.

Me: hey! I need an opinion on something. I need to get back to my friend in a second. A boyfriend checks out other girls, is that cheating?
Her: ( what if she answers yes? What if she answers no )

Me: well I'm asking because my friend and I were arguing if it was. I say yes but he says no. If you found out that your bf does this would you dump him?

Her: ( what if she answers yes or no?)

Me: well thanks. ( I would then give a gesture of walking away. Then I would turn back again and say " by the way, how do you two know each other?" then the problem comes to when the girl is by herself, what do I say after my opener? )


This is in high school by the way and I'm a senior so I got quite a bit of status. Do I go for a number close? Do I invite her to my table?

If they say... yes its cheating then say: thats a bit hypocritical because i just caught you checking me/that guy over there (point to a really ugly guy) out while i was asking you..

Then she will either laugh/ or say "but i dont have a boyfriend"

If she says that she doesn't have a boyfriend and...

a) you said that she checked out you (say "im very flattered you were checking me out, but i think we'd prob be best staying just friends, i can tell that we are too similar and we'd fight all the time)

b) you said that she checked that guy out (say "I know that guy has dynamite looks *smile* but the show is over here!) Go into routine.

If she has a boyfriend, thank them for their opinion and eject!

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If she says no, its not cheating (which most will do) say something like... so if you had a boyfriend and you were walking through the mall/shopping centre with him and he checked out another girl, you'd be cool with that?

Again you'll find out if she is taken and go from there!

Hope that makes sense!

I wouldn't say that you thought it was cheating, because then she's going to see you as not an alpha male, because alpha males prowl and check women out. You want to demonstrate that you are virile and open to encountering women. By saying you think checking women out is cheating, it implies that you wouldn't check her out and women desire to be checked out. When you say that you think checking a girl out is cheating, then you demonstrate that your woman controls you and that you are submissive and women crave dominant men.

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