| If you don't want to go simple and direct, here are some openers. These are also good for beginners. Remember to put a confident smile on your face and sound like an impudent motherfucker. All are field tested and field approved.
1. Have a friend with you. Walk up to a group of girls:
"Hey girls, could you help us out?"
"It depends, what's up?"
"We were passing by the beach and decided to go for a swim. Can we leave out stuff with you while we go for a dip in the water?"
"Sure"
Go for a swim. Come back.
"Hey, could I sit next to you?"
"Sure, go ahead."
(You can introduce yourself before or after the swim. When you come back you can say whatever you want. Kick it with them for a bit- if it's later in the day you can spend time with them after the beach.)
2. Walk up next to her chilling down on the sand:
"Hey, I've heard you have the hottest sun here. I'm going to sit down next to you."
Sit down while you're speaking, not waiting for her response.
(Introduce yourself)
3. Walk up with a bottle of water and sit down, not paying much attention.
"Hey Katie, I got the water."
"I'm not Katie."
"Oh wow, you have the same bathing suit as my friend."
(Introduce yourself)
4. Walk up to her.
"Hey, have you seen any pretty girls around here?"
(If they don't say something about themselves, which they should, act like you didn't notice how pretty she is)
(Introduce yourself)
5. A girl walking by you.
"Hey, you need to stop walking by that man (point to some guy, preferably an older guy) looking that good. He already had two heart attacks. Walk by me-my heart is good and healthy."
(She'll smile or start laughing, go for the introduction)
6. Walk up to a girl.
"Hey, come check out the sand castle I built for you. If you like it, and you will like it, we can live happily ever after in it. Just kidding. That'd be ridiculous."(Introduction)
7. If you're with a group of guys, walk up to a group of girls and stand in the middle of them. They'll all be shocked. With confidence say:"Hey girls. My name is _____. I'm a great guy in every way and I my friends are great in every way. We're sitting over there." (Point to your friends while they're waving at you guys. Go off of this. If they take it positively, you can introduce yourself and tell them to come hang out with you guys or wave your friends over. If they say "So what?" tell them that you should make this a bigger party- the more the merrier. Anything you say at this point is good- you've just presented yourself to a bunch of women, your confidence will be peaking.)
8. If you're with a group of guys, walk up to a group of girls. Tell your friends to start walking over the second you start talking to the girls:"Hey, my friends and I saw you girls and wanted to meet you (point to your friends walking over and start introducing yourself).
9. Walk over to any girl:
"Hey, could you help me out? My friend and I made a bet on whether I can easily meet you. Could you play along for a bit? My name is ____"
10. Walk over to any girl:
"Hey, I'm not going to bullshit around. I fell in love with your breasts. Now it's your turn. I'm _____, what's your name?" _________________ A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness.
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