Well tonight guys IVE BEEN DEALT YET ANOTHER BLOW!
IT TURNS OUT NOW THAT PEOPLE THINK IM GAY!
Just because of the curse thats been dealt to me that Im destined not to meet any woman.
People have noticed I have not been with a woman for a long time(what they dont realise that its not a while but a eternity because of the hand ive been dealt), people go on like its been my choice and that its the way ive chosen to be, nothing I could have done could have changed the way things are for me.
Theres nothing wrong with being gay but I know Im not and thats what gets to me about this...Why have I been treated so bad?
Why have I been given such a life, what have I done to deserve this?
Id be better off dead than living such a cruel pointless existance.

that sucks

Ok, first of all, you sir, need to reframe.

Being considered gay is NOT entierley a bad thing. For one, it allows you to come in completley under the radar with girls, so that you have an oppourtunity to attract them without them feeling threatened.

With the kind of attitude you are writing with here, it's no wonder you arent getting girls. Start seeing this in a positive light and use it to your advantage. Being considered gay should make it MUCH easier for you to hang out with girls, because you wont be intimidating to them.

It is by no means impossible to get a girl when they consider you gay. Hell, Mystery used to use an opener "If I wasnt gay, I'd so make you mine". He's play out the rest of the set as gay, then at the K-Close where's she'd ask about it, he'd say "I was...".

This can be a good thing, make the best of it!

I totally agree with Orann. When girls might get a slightly "gay" vibe from you, you've gotta recognize how easy everything just got. You don't have to worry about coming off as creepy or aggressive because virtually ALL girls believe gay guys are harmless.

Hell, I've heard of some guys opening with "hey, I'm gay, but I wanted to know what it's like to kiss a girl." I wouldn't necessarily start with that line every time, but it's a good example of how ridiculously easy it is to open girls when you don't come off as a player who just wants to fuck their brains out.

Just open sets like you would normally...be confident in who you are, independent of the outcome, and escalate the kino. Then fuck her brains out

Do you live in a village where the female population is ten?

Two points,

1. People thinking you are gay is not a disadvantage, if anything it is an advantage.
2.Meet some other girls for fuck sake, if you're that worried about what they think of you, then you're not meeting enough girls so go open some more sets.

Certainly is nothing wrong with gay.

but,you sir are gay.

deal with it, WHY does people seem to think you are gay?
There must be something to you as a person that makes people think you are gay?

LOL!

And yes use their belief that you are gay to your advantage!

All pretty girls want a best guy friend who is gay. C'mon! This should make approaching girls 100x easier. You're not a threat and they feel comfortable around you. Even if things dont become more you just made a new friend. Hello! Is this not social proof/pre-selection?!

Just remember ...The pyramids werent built in a day.

Do you sarge alone?

You should try to find a wing that can give you some tips. If you cant figure out what you are doing wrong then you are going to keep making the same mistakes.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

You should get yourself together! there are people in this world who have the same problem and just sit at home and do nothing with their lives just playing games or watching tv. you are here so that means there is a progress wich will take place in a mather of time. its up to you how fast this proces will take place. You can keep posting how much your life sucks but thats not going to help you in ANY way. What you need to do is look at your life see what you are doing wrong and work on it keep a positive nature and keep focusing on your goal. try to open sets without thinking to score. Just focus on socializing and making more friends. This will give you your value back and everybody will notice a new person is born within you. Then one day you will get the bal in front of the goal and suddenly ''He shoots ! He scores!''

Guy...

Do you know how many women I've pulled letting them believe I was gay during the initial approach??

It's not a curse, you can completely use it to your advantage as long as you do it the correct way. Besides, most women I"ve met believe that gay men are well put together & dress accordingly. That's a GOOD thing...

He he he. I just had an evil laugh.
Man! Quit bitching and get out there! Get a damn girl and stop hugging on guys! Figure out the common aspects to why people think you're gay, and change that shit!
I know, I know. Noone wants to change themselves just because of what other people think, blah blah blah. Fuck that shit. If you want the HBs to talk to you as a person of non-gay origins, something needs to fucking change. You can't change every female in the world (or maybe in your case guys, j/k), so here's my advice...
This is the only time I will EVER say this in my life (I hope)...take the easy way out and change yourself. Take a long, hard look in the mirror (if you thought of cock after I said long and hard, you're gay), and figure out what you can do to fuck every girl in your ten girl town. Then move to the next town. Get some gash, smash some vuh jaj, and remember, always use a condom, drink milk, and don't run with scissors.
Holla!

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Most people here say they think you are gay. Is this because you look gayish and do girls think you are gay or are the guys just calling you gay because you never been with a girl? I think its a big difference.

stopping feeling sorry for yourself is a good start

Yeah, at the risk of sounding redundant, you need to adjust the attitude. I'm sorry people think you're gay but 2 yrs ago I was paralyzed from my waist down in a car accident and I get girls bro. It's a challenge unlike before that accident but never the less, I still open sets and act like there is nothing wrong with me and I think that vibe is conveyed to them. You want to talk about a cruel pointless existance?? Do you want to trade places with me? I'll gladly in a heartbeat trade this wheelchair for a "cruel pointless existance" where I can still walk....

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Agreed. And it sounds like you already might be feeling some depression. I've been there and it's hard to get out of it unless you do positive things for yourself in everyday life. You need to reframe. Find some new social hobbies.

If you act gay outwardly but sre straight, embrace it. Join yoga to meet chicks, "equivalent of home ec in highschool." Women friends "pivots" are great for DHV!

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

Don't forget..."attraction isn't a choice"...i know plenty of girls who have been attracted to gay guys. If you do good in A2 then it doesn't matter.