If i'm not going direct, my tendency is to start talking in the comfort phase, like every other guy.

I don't know how to open her that would stand out and be attractive other than direct.

Basically I don't really know attraction game. Any ideas?

Are you listening? I’m going to give you the secret of how to get that sexy, slinking, buxom, raven haired beauty behind the bar to come home with you.
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Fuck you.
YOU WILL NEVER FUCK YOUR FEMALE BARTENDER. It just does not happen. This is why they put only hot girls behind 91% of bars across the planet. They want the men’s money!

Women bartenders are the most jaded women to ever exist in the WORLD.

Don't hate them, they earn their living that way!

Okay, I'm done. It is possible, knowing how to pick up a female bartender isn't difficult. Just be fun, be bold, and let her know that you want to show her what fun she can have with you.


you need to be aware of before you learn how to pick up a female bartender. Female bartenders are hit on all the time. If they’re beautiful, then this increases tremendously!

Like all other women, the main element you need to remember in learning how to pick up a female bartender is that she likes to feel special. However, unlike other women, you need to be 10 X bolder in order to get her attention and create attraction. She’s heard all the lines and is sick of most guys hitting on her, your funny shit is not brand new to her at all!

Building comfort is not the initial answer here, being BOLD,DIFFERENT, and a CHALLENGE is!

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Funny you say that. I'm currently dating a hot bartender who I met while she was bartending.

All I did was go direct on her and she gave me her number.

As I was saying, other than direct, I don't really know what to do. Direct just seems the most simple.

Obviously direct is based on if she's into your looks and vibe etc but I guess I want to know the "attraction game" if that even exists.

My point exactly.
Bold and direct is about the best for pulling a hot bartender. Kudos Bro.

That was the purpose of the 1st part of my post, every lame ass drunk is trying to pull her.
My question would be-if bold and direct is working, why would you change that?

I pulled one "Heather".

My opening statement: "Pull up your shirt a little, I can't have any conversation with you while I staring at your boobs!"

She was bent over in front of me while talking.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.