Hi all, I was looking for a little help with my night/club game. I am decent at closing as long as I get her attention and I can usually suppress AA or compensate with alcohol. However it’s the first instant, making eye contact and click or what not that I have trouble with. As an Asian, only 5’10 and skinny with average looks, well dressed or not, I’m practically invisible to girls in clubs. Frankly part of me suspects that the buck for most girls stops at Asian. Does anyone know anything that might help, especially with making eye contact or just getting her attention? I’m usually reluctant to talk to any girl I don’t make eye contact with because it feels too creeperish but all my AA just drains away if I get a girl to look me in the eye and smile a little.

Approaching? That normally gets peoples attention. Deal with the AA man, approaching is no big deal, you're building it up in your head to be some crazy thing. Starting a conversation is a normal part of life, social interaction. Nothing creepy about it at all.

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