o god. this isnt even funny

approached a girl at the mall today tried to kino escalate and things were great at first tried kiss closing the girl...she started saying she needs to go, in my opinion this was a usual typical response to kino escalation and approaching girls in general. my response: a playful "shut up", she seemed to be into the "shut up" response, she saw a few friends passing by so she again excussed herself. i let her go, the next thing mall cops approach me to "talk"

the girl reported me and now i realized im a fucking freak, im a psycho or some shit, don't even know why i thought trying to kiss strangers was even remotely normal. trully ashamed of my actions, ive become a local pedofile. welcome to game. not trying to bag on game but this comes solely from concern about my view of the world. breaking social norms is psycho.

DONT KINO ESCALATE DURING DAYGAME. im probably not even going to do daygame no more.
all people who tell you you're being a freak, or a weirdo are telling the fucking truth

i think this is a very rare situation.. a one in million.. dont give up.. this will not happen for the next 999,999 approaches.. May be you did not read her discomfort.. may be her 'few friends' forced her to report you.. but you could have gone in for the kc after some strong iois..

First of all, yes you're weird, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing.

We're all nerds. We all like women. We all like kisses. Relax.

The only thing that sets you apart from a bad person is if you do it just for your needs, and don't care about the other person.

You already said you thought she was into it.

You asked her to kiss you. She said no.

You said shutup and moved in.

You expected her to stop you if she really didn't want it.

That is perfectly reasonable, however, since there are a lot of unreasonable guys that don't care about the girl at all, there is a policy against continuing to go after a girl after she says no.

Especially if touching or implied sensuality is involved. If it is just asking out on a date, sometimes a little persistence is okay, but not much at all.

Furthermore, when a girl complains, you realize how much power they really have. So, even if you did nothing, and she complained, this same result would have happened. Women have a tremendous amount of power.

In the future, don't push so hard with girls you don't know, esp if they might be underage.

And then if you make a mistake but no you aren't in the wrong, get out of there. Staying around just makes the girl more mad and makes her want to complain more. Don't stick around.

Lastly, and perhaps most importantly...

After failure, we always magnify our weakness. We feel genuine shame, and we humble ourselves. This is a great thing. However, realistically, what you did isn't that deviating from the norm. You thought it could work in a harmless way, and went for it. It's not that bad. The problem is you presented yourself in a way that could be construed as something very bad.

If you ever get caught doing that again, explain that you heard it was a technique that you thought worked, explain that you thought that with a girl saying no, that girls always say no to everything, and you thought your persistence would be attractive to her, esp since you've read all these books where girls like that sort of thing.

Uh.. ran out of things to say, good luck in the future!

thanks alot guys im currently re-cuperating from last sarge and I'm gonna list some valuable lessons here:

be less aggressive/direct with women who are not hot
unattractive females can be unconfident, they are used to dealing only with shy guys

dont say anything that can be remotely negative/offensive to girls who are not hot(true hb9s or hb10) the hotest of the hot. people tend to take things personally even if it's clear that you're joking, most people are stuck in their head bound by insecurity

kino escalation must be limited based on circumastances, location, time of day, relationship with hb, confidence of hb, etc.
in general you don't want too much escalation in a short period of time at least not with regular hbs, god forbid they're warm up sets..., average guys(chodes) don't even kino escalate at all especially during the day thus its weird if you kino escalate hard and fast, big no no here

shy, unattractive, insecure, low self esteem women need lots of space, lots of time, and lots of reassurance in order to be picked up