| There're two main situations where you can *close a woman.
First, tipical one, you are talking for a while, working your magic, and you are getting some IOI. You move few centimeters forward since you are close and go for the kiss.
Second, only for clubs, you find a woman willing to be kissed and go for it. Of course many more things should be present, but you'll be doing them anyway.
Who are these women? I've found out few indicators, but I'd like you to share the ones you've found. Tipically she'll be alone, either because her friend is with someone else or she just happens to be alone. She'll be "orbiting" your group if you are doing everything right. But she won't give you the main IOI as eye contact or body looking straight to you. She'll have an open body language, half smiling, half dancing to the music. When you speak to her, she will be completely non-reactive, but you should first speak to her anyway or you'll come too strong.
An example: a friend of mine was with a woman, and her friend was with us. I was having fun with my friend and the other girl was at my left. At some point, I turned to her ear and asked "What's your name?". She told me but didn't ask for mine, so I just pushed a little bit and was like "cool" and went back to talk with my friends. But she knew my interest, she was still doing the same but I could feel how the sexual tension had just raised.
Then, while I was talking with my friends, I put my hand in her hair and turned to her and kissed her. She was really close already (IOI), so no problem. It was a "let's try it, there's nothing to loose" situation. We had some fun and then I left when I felt like it. I don't like getting too kinky if there's nothing to do for that night.
What indirect IOI have you seen on the dancefloor when there's a clear interest on not showing IOI? _________________ I'm not English so I might make minor mistakes and make some sentences sound a little weird.
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