I want some tip from you guys.
Well since i started with this game, i have developed alot. I'm more socially, my AA has decresed alot (not 100% yet), i do feel more comfortable in clubs now, i'm ALOT better with eye-contact and i smile alot more (not the fake smile like before), I approach more girls (my minimum goal is 10 sets/girls per night).
But my problem is actually the part between approaching and the mid-game.
I have no problem with approaching the girl (usualy), BUT i have problem with the escalating from the approach to isolate the girl and actually have a conversation with her (that's when the actual game beggins).
Usualy it's something like this-
A girls goes from the bathroom (back to her friends), i ask her something, she stops and answer, usualy i make her laugh. After about 1-2min, i always ask "who are you with" (it's like a sickness i don't even want to ask her that and i do it ALL THE FKN TIME.....), well she points at her friends or just tells me who she it with, then after a while she usualy rounds the whole approach of and say something like "i have to go back to my friends now".
I think my problem is the conversation, first i come up with something funny, unusual to say, and when i've said it, then i'm out of the good stuff and the booring typical conversation is starting to come out. And usualy the girl never try to hold the conversation alive, well i'm still a stranger.
The times when my game worked well is when:
I go to a club, i start to mingle/approach ALOT. And when i'm at the mood i like to talk about random stuff without no sence (it works quite often), then when i make the set/girl laugh, i say "see you
", and walk away, i always walk away when i'm on the top.
I keep doing this for like an hour or so, and then i just have a good time with my friends. And later that night i'm usually not a stranger anymore, and ppl are greeting to me like they have known me for a year.
In those cases when i start to talk to a girl my game is smooth and i feel very comfortable.
Sometimes i even approach alot on the street, and talk to different girls, and sometimes i meet these girls at the club later that night, it also makes me "not longer a stranger effect".
That's all my game for so far. But i'm still an AFC, i mean i do k-close and sometimes close to an f-close (not so very often). But i realy need to change my game and i guess go out of my comfort zone (which i think i'm doing?).
Anyway any ideas or tip?
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