Hey guys, i've done a bit of reading recently on openers, and tested them, trying to find some of the best that really work out in the field, especially at busy/loud places like clubs or bars. Not all of them are my own therefore i am not taking credit for them all. Here is a list of a few of them, which i will keep updated as i test more out:

Hey i need an opinon on something. Who lie more, men or women? (follow up with Style's 5 Lies routine)

OMG, did you see the fight outside?

Hey, I need a girls opinion on something. My friend has a girlfriend who is totally jealous of his ex and wants him to delete every memory or her, do you think this is reasonable?

I just got called cute by this girl at the bar. Would you say thats a good thing or bad?

I caught you looking at me earlier, knew you would be too scared to come say hi so i thought i’d do it for you

Hey, i just wanted to test something. I want to find out if you fit the stereotype that all beautiful girls are just looks and have no personality.

You: Hey, are you in the line? HB: Yeah i am. You: I’m sure you pushed in front on me!

Its so ridiculous how girls always get served first, i mean i have boobs just as big as yours and i get blanked! What am i doing wrong?(/tell me your secret!)

Do you think if i come out next time with a stuffed bra and low cut top ill get served instantly or not?

I need your opinion, is how good of a kisser a guy is a big deal or not?

Are you shy? I’ve noticed you looking at me for a while and you haven’t even said hi yet.

I need your help to prove my friend that he is totally wrong. Every attractive girl he sees he automatically thinks that she is a bitch and she is stuck up, so as he is too nervous to come ask you himself, i thought i'd ask for him, whats the best way to approach a girl at a place like this and make them attracted to him?

(This is for use in the line at the bar. Tap girl on shoulder and say) You: Hey, do you know that guy over there checking you out? (When she turns around to look, swiftly step infront of her in the queue) HB: hey you pushed infront! You: (in a teasing tone) well you shouldnt be so desperate to get attention from guys checking you out then and pay more attention to getting your drinks! (always gets her laughing or in a playful mood). (if she turns back around and doesnt notice you pushed, and says i cant see anyone checking me out, reply with: Oh, maybe he was checking me out then!)

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I don't like anything that is started with "I need your opinion" I would save that for later in the interaction if the convo starts to stall. "i need your opinion" is something canned that most women who get out much or who get hit on much have heard the phrase more than once. Women like to give their opinion. But there are more effective ways to start a conversation and more effective ways to ask for an opinion later.

Also you should keep the first line simple. My guess is you are new to approach and if so, it's hard for me to imagine you come spitting out some of these big long paragraphs without getting tounge tied. Even if you do, she may not be interested in hearing that much talk as an opener b/c it will sound written and rehearsed or she may not have the patience to listen to it all before she loses interest.

Mysterys thing about the fight I WOULD like, if it wasn't the term "fight" or it likely wasn't a lie, and wasn't something you knew they were going to say no too. Women don't like fighting and don't like talking about fighting so they will say no, and likely lose interest in the conversation. That's more of a blow out line to get a shy guy talking. Alter that where it doesn't have to do with fight, but fashion, or music, or the place across the street or a current event or something.

You have a couple items that you wanted to be disappointed she did not approach you first. There's an unwritten rule in a logical society that says men are supposed to approach women first. That's just part of starting a conventional healthy relationship. Women have the pussy, have the babies and cook and clean. Not the other way around. Desperate women with problems approach men of higher value. If you are going to all the effort to write pick up lines, you find a quality woman you want to approach and don't recommend they should have said something to you first.

The only line I really like is the "i just got called cute by a girl, is that good or bad" I would have to tweak that one to say "i just got called cute by a guy, I don't know if that's good" then maybe she will respond and you can say"let him see me speak to you a minute"

I could see myself using that and I think i've done so a few times. Your other stuff I personally wouldn't use but you should try it out b/c you seem proud of it. I think it can get you in the door talking but not in many bedrooms.

Thanks for the feedback. With regards to the lines about the women approaching me, i was just trying adapt some of the techniques i had learnt from other PUAs about showing power/dominance. Some of the best PUAs speak about getting girls to buy them drink and them them out on dates, again this is not the typical socail norm, in where the guy approaches and takes out on date and buys drinks etc..

These are just some ideas that ive had and posted on here to get some constructive feedback to better my game, so thanks for your help

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