There are many different ways to successfully open an attractive woman. Through my personal experience of approaching many women, I have found the direct opener to be the best for a few different reasons. One is by opening direct, women will already know what you're about and why you approached them. There is no beating around the bush. 2 is that women love a confident man who is not afraid to state his interest and show boldness. 3 is that opening direct allows you to quickly screen out the women who AREN'T interested in you sexually or romantically. All in all, my favorite way to approach women is to open them direct. What are some ways that you have found effective to open women?

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Mostly physical opens, I find that I no longer think about direct/indirect, it really doesn't matter as long as there's intense eye contact and strong physicality

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If you're playing the numbers game, I'd say always go direct. No reason to waste your time - the percentage difference between a good opener and a direct opener is small enough that by maybe 5-10 approaches, it makes much more sense to simply go direct.

Now if you're out during the day at a coffee shop and see a beautiful woman, I'd go with something more creative personally.

I do Kino openers for club and EC/Smile Pre-Open for non-club. Always gets me into set. I agree.



When I want to get laid bad I go direct ad during the day. But, I am not the best looking guys so direct isnt always the best option. Plus, I enter sets with often two 7/8/9's and dont know which one I like, so I game both and see which one I vibe with better, so indirect tends to work well.

A lot of my direct is, "You two look fun, I had to say hello." Which is true and direct.

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Excellent post. This is a good way to open direct without coming on too strongly. Solid information. And yes, your looks and fundamentals can either help you or hurt you when opening direct.

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I still think direct opener's are the best and work exceptionally well if you are confident and good looking. It also means you are guaranteed a conversation, at least for a short time. Wouldn't recommend it to someone who suffered from approach anxiety or a fear of rejection though. The old "hey I thought you were really pretty, so I had to come talk to you" is my favourite!

I try and go with the insanely worded compliments like " hey miss ridiculously good looking, hows it going " and I do it with a smile and a chuckle. For my direct game it works.

What places is it you're gaming that you're using direct openers? like college campus, night clubs, streets, malls?

I'll be honest. My specialty is day game so I focus on building attraction right from the get go. During the day you don't have a lot of time to banter and flirt like you do with night game. So I will usually open women direct in places like coffee shops, bookstores, malls, or even out on the street.

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Im looking for some advice on direct daygame. I get the eye contact, smile, approach, let them know exactly why you approached them...then what? If they respond warmly you just go in for a close? Or do you still need to quallify and all that?

Not to thread jack but keeping with the spirit of directness I try to throw in really different vocabulary often as adjectives so instead of saying hey you guys look fun/cute/exciting, I say hey I need to make new friends and you guys look rather exotic/energetic/fantastic etc. The whole way that British people have a million ways to say one thing is my thinking here. What do you think?

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Good call -- a good opener is one that women eagerly respond to. And they eagerly respond to adjectives ... Especially when it's about judging others or comparing themselves to others.

Women are more focused on judging appearances and relationships than men. They care about how something feels to you. So focus on that. When describing something unisual that happened, focus on what someone said and how they felt. That makes it more real for them so they can participate in judging the sitution from a personal point of view!

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