Ok, story time. Last night I went out with some friends in a night club. Now this night club had been closed for a while, and was the best night club in town before that. So naturally I expected that a lot of people would come here, and that there would be great pickup chances. When we arrived there weren't a lot of people, so a couple of friends and I went out to grab something to eat. When we came back the place was packed full of people, and you could barely walk through the club. There I saw that my buddy's girlfriend was there, so I wondered if she brought anyone else. My suspicions were confirmed when I saw this girl walk up and stand right next to me. Now I immediately assumed that as an IOI. Throughout the night she was constantly looking at something behind, but it was so frequent, that I suspected she was looking for an excuse to look at me. Even when we were dancing, she was always looking over my shoulder. So one time I caught her glance and looked at her, but she immediately shied away. That happened a couple of more times and then she left.


My question is, were those really IOIs? I am pretty positive they were, as she didn't seem to be uncomfortable with me constantly bumping into her (due to the crowd, and naturally dancing). I wanted to talk to her, but the music was way to loud, and there was no break time in between the songs. Is there something I should have done differently?

Personally in that situation I do something I call 'stealth kino' using the back of my hand while holding a drink to brush up and down on her nipples/boobs. Get her comfortable with you touching her. Then take her hand and lead her out to the smoking area (alpha you leading her). When you get out there say ' Jeeze it was hot in there I really needed to get some fresh air'.