1 year after and I'm starting to lose motivation



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 9:49 pm 
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Guys, i've been doing this for nearly over a year now and i've done 1000> approaches. I got a few lays but only recently that my game has got better, in the sense that the interaction goes well and we do meet up for dates. But I started to settle down with the two GFs because of winter season.

I still go out 1-2 every week with my mate but I really have no motivation to go and approach.
I have these excuses:
why should I approach, she's not great looking
i'm too tired
she looks dumb
I dont have a place to close tonight and i'm busy for the next 2 weeks
i dont think i like her
I don't have time for another girl in my life, she looks like GF material.

The list goes on but I want to get better at this, as its part of me and who I am. I love the thrill but only if its worth the chase.

Anyway I want to be in a position where I have the motivation, energy and thirst to approach.

I want to use this skill to open new social connections and meet better girls, but again no motivation to open and forward my game and its having an impact.

I can get the first 3-5min of a conversation going really well but I just would start to run out of things to follow through as it has no real aim then to just get a number as I have no where to close the girl on the day. At the moment i'm just getting the numbers where I can and when I want to.

There's basically no aim as to what I am doing.

Any help or advise would be great!


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 10:01 pm 
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You need to fclose, not #close.
You lose motivation if you only #close and I can't imagine it being any fun.
As 60 said, if you keep girls and keep trying to close them, you wont get anything.
You shouldnt have reserves and always try to get new girls.
If you really want to get better you should dump the other 2 girls.

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