Hey guys!!
I can't tell you how excited I am right now because I've got something very important to share with you.
After years of embarrassments and painful failures filled with all the horrible negative feelings like fear of approaching, social anxiety and sexual anxiety, I have lately discovered something that will transform your whole approach not only to seducing your desired women but also to your entire life.
What I am about to share with you, I like to call in two different ways.
"Non-Chasing Path To Getting Anything You Want" and...
"The Art of Pickup Without Pickup".
The latter was born after my recent studying, brainstorming and most importantly, implementing quite a few of Bruce Lee's words of wisdom such as:
"Be like the water my friend. When you pour water into the cup, it becomes the cup, when you pour water into the glass, it become the glass...."
"The arts of fighting without fighting" and....
"If you are planning to win, you are going to fail."
Now, try to stop reading this post for a minute and try to reflect on and remember all those amazing moments in your life when you were so amazed how effortlessly and easily you got what you really wanted to get without any previous preparation.
Don't worry if you can't remember such cool moments because you'll definitely have enough time to live and fully enjoy your ever desired dating, seduction or the ultimate playboy lifestyle of your wildest dreams for the rest of your life after I have shared with you a secret little combo of two simple things any guy can do to instantly seduce any woman, anywhere and at any time.
Forget about any pickup lines, forget about approach anxiety, forget about social anxiety, forget about sexual anxiety and forget about the rest of the negative stuff and B.S. that have been haunting you all your life.
So, forget about ALL the above things FOREVER! Because after you understand and start using what I recently tested with two women in a row and IT WORKED, I won't be surprised if you start laughing with an ecstatic happiness and immensely uplifting joy and say:"WOW!! How comes that I've ended up in the pickup community."
Now, before I get down and dirty on revealing to you my latest field report or better say, my life-changing story because of which from now on I have no any fear going oiut and meeting women anywhere and anytime but on the contrary I now absolutely LOVE going out there and fearlessly making that magnetic eye contact with any chick I really get attracted to, I want to let you know that apart from studying Bruce Lee's wisdom, I have also been studying through the passionate life secrets of some of the most successful folks on earth like Jay Abraham, Bob Proctor and Jack Canfield to name only a few that I have read in the bestselling book called "The Passion Test: The Effortless Path To Discovering Your Destiny" by the authors: Janet and Chris Attwood.
Why did I read this book and why this book is so important for the topic of "The Arts Of Pickup Without Pickup = Effortless Success!" ??
About a few months ago, one whole night, from about midnight up until 9 am in the morning I was searching the internet to find and learn how I could come into the stage in my life where I could effortlessly live my top passions and also cash in on my passions. Because I've realized that during my whole life I have never ever worked on a job that I really and truly loved doing, ok?
And, lately when sitting at the computer working on developing my online business, I hit that rock bottom so hard and said to myself: "Why can't I enjoy the same kind of sexual freedom with any of my desired women and girls the same way as for example, porn stars do and my ex super sexually happy musician SPAM who used to bring home a new woman into his bed almost every night during the week?"
I wondered: "Does it really mean that what I am doing right now (thinking of developing my online business) is a pure waste of my time and my energy? Does it mean that if I really wanted to cash in on my passion to seduce hot women, I need to become a porn actor or something?"
I am telling you all this because I realized that I have never ever lived my life as EFFORTLESSLY and PASSIONATELY as I would like. So, I wondered: "How about I find and learn the secrets on how I can also achieve the same level of sexual freedom in my life the same way as porn stars and my musician friend without the need for me to go into the porn industry?"
And, this is how I found this book after hours and hours of searching the net all night long. And, my main motive to find it was to learn how to EFFORTLESSLY live my top passions with a possibility for me to also cash in on them, ok?
Why is the stuff from this book so important for improving your dating and seduction or pickup life?
It's important because of the following 2 life-changing things that I have learned from the book:
"Whatever you put your attention on grows stronger and stronger in your life."
"Enjoy whatever you do in your life."
In other words, if you everyday try very hard to pickup women just for the sake of pickup and you are neither successful at it nor do you enjoy it, you'll end up chasing women around like an idiot for the rest of your life.
Neil Strauss (aka Style) called the men who practice this kind of pickup "social robots"in his book "The Game" where he wanted to warn us not to get into this stupid mechanical routine or habit of always having to approach any woman we see in front of our eyes just for the sake of our inner validation or for the sake of the pickup itself, ok?
The same thing could happen to you when trying to make money by changing job after job after job....In other words, if you keep on chasing money (or jobs), you'll end up chasing money (or jobs) all your life.
Do you really want to chase anything in your life?
Well, as far as I am concerned I can tell you with a great clarity that I personally do not enjoy any chase or any unnatural mechanical routines or habits where I feel any kind of unnatural pressure or force. I simply want to live my whole life SUPER EFFORTLESSLY and SUPER PASSIONATELY, ok?
Funnily enough, speaking of mechanical routines, here I come back to Bruce Lee who very passionately spoke in favor of the freedom of any mechanical conditioning. Wow!! This is unbelievable how Bruce Lee had so many cool tips for living a very cool life.
Now, what I also have to tell you about Bruce Lee and that's also very important message and tip for creating and living your dream dating or playboy lifestyle, or your dream lifestyle in general is that he says that you must never ever copy or model any kind kind of role-models, idols or celebrities BUT you always must be YOUR TRUE SELF.
So, if you have ever wanted to finally stop that streak of painful failures, struggles and embarrassments when mechanically approaching and chasing women like a robot, then read on because here comes my story or my field report.
MY FIELD REPORT (the excerpt from my blog post):
You know that feeling that many like to call as a LIGHT BULB MOMENT, or BINGO! or AHA MOMENT or A SUDDEN FLASH OF AN INSIGHT?!
Well, I just wanna tell you that I was actually feeling exactly like that as soon as I discovered it because I started to firmly believe that THIS IS IT when it comes to finally being able to get rid of all that unnecessary nagging “RAT RACE CHASING” pressure and stress that I have been going through in almost ALL ASPECTS of my life.
And, here I am especially thinking of and referring to that nauseating CHASING THE MONEY (THAT’S 9 TO 5 JOBS) and CHASING or PICKING UP WOMEN things that have been hitting on me almost all my life.
Now, the reason I am telling you all this before I actually get down and dirty to sharing with you all my EXCITEMENT about discovering that SECRET and VERY POWERFUL, LITTLE COMBO from the title of this post is because I really want you to understand WHY and HOW this Non-Chasing Approach To Living Your Life is in fact the key to you uncovering YOUR FULL POTENTIAL and YOUR MOST ECSTATIC HAPPINESS when it comes to super freely going after your GREATEST PASSIONS and WILDEST DREAMS wherever and whenever you wish, ok?
In short, I want you to become and stay amazed at HOW EASY it is.
So, the SECRET LITTLE COMBO is as follows.
The first thing you need to do when walking down the street and expecting to meet your kind of women is simply get rid of all that pressure of necessarily having to approach any woman.
That way you’ll actually start to feel much more relaxed than having all the pressure on you that you always have to approach any girl you like as soon as you see her for the sake of kind of your own validation.
If you’ve read the bestselling book “The Game” by the legendary Neil Strauss and remember when he’s warned us not to turn into “social robots” mechanically approaching any woman, then you’ll exactly know and understand why I am pointing out the benefits of this SUPER COOL and RELAXED NON-CHASING state of mind, if you like.
Here’s exactly what I did when walking towards that girl WITHOUT BEING UNDER ANY PRESSURE of having to approach her.
As I was getting closer and closer to her I kept my eye contact with her until she super spontaneously and kind of “out of blue” started smiling at me as if she saw me naked or something like that.
You know that feeling when you start smiling at something in a very natural way. And, this is exactly how she smiled at me without stopping.
To help you understand that even better, she was smiling as if I kind of told her a super entertaining sexually charged joke that she’s never heard before, ok?
So, the first thing WE DID when making that initial contact as soon as I got so close to her that we could smoothly start a conversation was that we started to smile at one another almost AT THE SAME TIME.
And, by the way, I must tell you that this blonde girl could’ve well been about 20 years younger than me and she looked like what some pickup artists or PUAs like to call HB9 or HB10.
She had a very trendy medium size blonde hair, very fashiony white winter jacket on that all reminded me of that rich man’s daughter who just came from her dream luxury skiing holiday at places like St. Moritz.
And, her super tight, expensive blue jeans revealing all the curves of her perfectly shaped ass and super attractively fit legs could turn any man’s head to magnetically stick his eyes on her.
So, what’s the second part of that SECRET LITTLE COMBO that you can do to INSTANTLY attract and seduce a woman or girl you like before you know it?
Well, I guess that the exact word-by-word thing that spontaneously and automatically came out of my mouth might not matter at all if I now tell you something that I think is EVEN MORE IMPORTANT than that.
And, that thing is all about your MINDSET. It’s as simple as that.
BUT, not any kind of mindset, ok? Let me explain what exactly was going on in my head when I was approaching her without any intention to approach her at all.
As I was walking closer and closer towards her, I was kind of feeling VERY PLAYFUL as if we HAVE KNOWN each other like old friends.
And, exactly here is hiding the other bit of the SECRET LITTLE COMBO that I like to call the “Old Friends Assumption”.
Now, you still might be wondering what exactly came out of my mouth immediately after we started to super spontaneously and naturally exchange our smiles. To tell you the truth, I now can’t remember what were my exact words.
However, to give you a clue or idea, when I am really relaxed like in the above mentioned situation, I sometimes say down the lines:
“Wow! I can’t believe that’s YOU!” [Note: I pretend to be very amazed at seeing her in a kind of playful way]
Or, I’d say something like: “So, how long you’ve been waiting for me?”
Or, “Where’s the party tonight?”
Or, you could also playfully go ahead and say: “Wow, is that YOU? So, where you’ve been all my life?”
I hope you get the idea of what kind of stuff you can quickly come up with just focusing on the context and circumstances when meeting her. So, in other words you don’t have to bother memorizing any pick up lines.
The latter is really TRUE especially if you follow Bruce Lee’s words of wisdom that you never try to copy the behavior of so called role-models, that you always try to “be like the water” and that if you try to win, you’ll fail.
Now, you might be wondering:
How did I manage to get into such relaxed and cool mood and state of mind that actually gives me the full and unlimited freedom to be and behave exactly in congruence or in harmony with who I really am and what I really want to say to someone in a specific situation?
This, by the way, reminds me of SPAM Gandhi’s happiness quote:
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are all in harmony.”
Back to the above question which is, by the way, a GREAT question.
What I actually decided to do that night was simply enjoying the vision of woman’s sexually attractive body parts that excite me the most thus making myself completely comfortable and free fearlessly resting my eyes on such parts even if I get caught while doing so by either the woman herself or somebody else.
And, the way I did was by visiting a place where Argentinian tango dancers normally have their dancing sessions. So, I went there and did that kind of sex focus reframe exercise by simply sticking my eyes on all the sexy parts of female Argentinian tango dancers.
And, I must tell you that I well in advance knew that my visit to this Argentinian tango place would do good to me because I did the same thing before by just entering the room and watching them dance as an observer because I don’t dance the Argentinian tango myself.
With all due respect to female Argentinian tango dancers and their focus on demonstrating correct steps and technique while dancing, I must say that while watching them dance they so much turn me on and super pleasantly make me horny.
The reason for it is simply thanks to the fact that Argentinian tango is not only one of those very erotic Latino American dances like salsa, rumba or cha-cha-cha but also have the two partners’ faces completely touch and rub the way real lovers would do to each other.
Anyway, if you notice the woman’s swollen nostrils while erotically rubbing her cheeks against the ones of her male partner, then I guess you know what I am talking about here.
To reinforce all these feelings, impressions and observations, after their dancing session was finished, I managed to approach and exchange a few words with both the female tango teacher herself and another female tango dancer who both gave off that hot sexually attractive vibes and importantly in a very playful way.
To cut the story short, a few minutes later after I’d left the tango place I was walking down the street and came to the main square in the very city centre where I then met that blonde babe who was by the way accompanied with her female friend while waiting for a tram.
Now, I have already told you what was going on at the beginning of our unexpected meeting. Then, you now won’t believe me if I told you that she actually carried on powerfully flirtingly smiling at me while we were spontaneously developing a conversation.
The bottom line is that she was absolutely sexually attracted to me. Period.
And, now you know that I didn’t deliver any specific pickup line or anything like that at all. Everything happened so EFFORTLESSLY as I’d like to say. Or, in other words, I managed to EFFORTLESSLY attract her.
The story after all three of us entered the same tram got even HOTTER because she HEAVILY started playfully hitting on me and SEXUALLY teasing me while chatting with each other all the way through till the moment when she and her friend had to get off the tram and I stayed in.
To give you a clue, how HORNY she actually got about me, let me just share with you two important bits from our chat.
The first one was when I told her that I was staying in London, UK for many years, and then she very curiously asked me: “So, how was it in London?”
I normally like to answer women to this kind of question by simply saying:
“It was crazy and unforgettable.”
And, guess what she then told me.
She said something down the lines: “How is it possible that you could have a crazy and unforgettable time at the same time?”
I got instantly confused by her saying that to me because I really didn’t understand what exactly she meant by that. And, then after I asjed her what she meant she said to me:
“Well, if you say that you had an unforgettable time there, that would mean you’d made a woman give birth to your baby. And, you look to me exactly like a guy who could do that.”
And, by the way, you should see her teasingly and sexually smiling at me without stopping while we were chatting. Anyway, now you get the idea how HARD and PASSIONATELY she was flirting with me all the time.
And, finally, the second thing that points out how obviously she was hitting on me or I’d better say, how obviously she was throwing her sexual banters at me was when she commented on my visit to the Argentinian tango place earlier on the same night by saying to me:
“So, you went there just to watch women.”
As a little tease at the very end of this unexpectedly long post, I just wanna say to you that two minutes after this blonde girl and her friend got off the tram, I did absolutely the same kind of approach with another girl who got onto the tram.
And, it WORKED again.
So, my question to you now would be:
“How would you like to be able to pick up women without picking them up at all?”
Or, let me ask you the same thing little bit differently:
“How would you like the art of pickup without pickup?”
…which would be the seduction or dating version of Bruce Lee’s saying:
“The art of fighting without fighting.”
CHAT