The "giving them a choice"-approach



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 7:01 pm 
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Hello everyone

before I explain my idea, I would like to start off by saying that I'm new to the PUAscene and haven't read much literature on it yet. So if I'm copying someone else here, I would like to apologise beforehand. If not, I wouldn't mind recieving feedback. Yes, I know - fieldtest it, I would if I had the balls for it (which I'm lacking so far, damn my social awkwardness!).


This is an idea which suddenly popped into my head while I was on the highway, going ahead at 5km/hours while choosing which lane to stick to. And then it hit me : choices, the one thing we all have to deal it, most of us don't like doing it, but they're still exciting. I've read several openers which revolve around this (the no/yes-ladder, the "would you like to kiss me, buy me a drink, ..." etc), but they all revolve around getting either a yes or a no (success or temporary failure).

So I was wondering, has anyone ever used a black/white question? With questions like this, you've got an entire flowchart of follow-up questions/moves you can pursue. For example, you can walk up to a target and ask her "yin or yang?". If she doesn't answer, blows you off, .. you can follow up with a neg ("Nevermind, I thought you looked like someone who's in touch with their spiritual side and has an open mind." - retry with another opener or another question if she tries to validate herself as an open minded person). If she replies, you can follow up with more questions ("Black or white? Hot or cold?) or start explaining the answer she has chosen (Yin : dark, you could interpret this by saying she has a dark/naughty/... side etc). This also opens another window in which you could neg her ("Really, yin? You seem like a girl who doesn't take much risks.."). As I stated before, this is all theoretical and I haven't tested this so far. And while I'm typing this, I'm getting the feeling this approach is common knowledge and then I'm sorry for wasting your time with this wall of text (if you read this far :p).

Anyway,

thanks for sticking with me to the end of this wall of text!

Spinoisje

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