| What up guys! This is something that has really been key to my success thus far. It is really good stuff.
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The Law of least effort & Freedom of outcome & intent
Okay! So this is a VERY key point that most guys early in the game don’t understand or grasp. BEING FREE OF OUTCOME!
For example, early in the game most guys approach with the mental mentality of such, and most chody guys do the same.. They approach….They give a canned or made up opener…They seek a reaction from the girl…If it isn’t what they expected, they crash and burn…The say something funny…They hope she laughs and find them funny and charming…She doesn’t laugh..They try to impress her with some story of DHVing or some story…She doesn’t give a shit…You try to close her…She rejects you…You walk away feeling like a failure because you were seeking to much of an outcome from the situation with the girl. You can try and hide your intent throughout an interaction but there is something called psychology of humans that allows us to sub communicate with each other without words..Through our gestures, eye-movements, words, etc. The goal here is to not seek a reaction from a girl and be free of the outcome, because the REALITY is you CANT control what will happen in the future, so be free and happy in the moment, and enjoy life for what it is. Find your happiness from within, and not with women, because if you do, you will ultimately FAIL in life.
Think of nature. Does a tree think to grow? Do clouds think before release rain? Does the wind think when to blow? NO. It is frictionless, spontaneous, and effortless. When you develop your sense of TRUE SELF. This means knowing your purpose and path and life, and not being compromised by women, and other things that most people let screw them up. Once you find true self you can develop a sense of least effort.
Least effort is developed when your actions are generated by love, and purpose. NOT by wanting power, fame, wealth, or riches. Your actions are simply in the moment.
When you seek POWER, MONEY, and things like this, for the EGO you will NEVER find happiness. You spend time trying to find the ILLUSION of happiness rather than finding happiness in the moment. When you actions are motivated by love, none of your energy is wasted. Your actions will grow, and accumulate, as well as the love you receive in return. In this post I refer to energy as love. So with this accumulation of energy and love, you can use this surplus to help create anything you want.
You MUST realize that attention to the EGO consumes the most amount of energy. In fact it is wasted energy. When your INTERNAL REFERENCE POINT is the ego(meaning you do things and only to please your ego), you waste energy, and will find yourself tired, exhausted, angry, and still haven’t accomplished a thing you set out to do.
When your INTERNAL REFERENCE POINT is your YOU, your hear, your spirit, knowing who you are, you will experience growth, and become immune to criticism, rejection, and unfearful of ANY challenge that presents itself.
SO how do YOU, put this into action with YOU, women, and your life?
Here’s How:
#1ACCEPTANCE
Make a commitment to accept people, circumstances, situations, and the world as it is right now and as they occur. This means that you know that this moment is as it should be, you cant control the next moment nor can you predict the next moment. When you fight against this moment you are fighting against the universe. This moment is meant to happy, if not it would have not, and the universe would be in a completely different moment.
#2 Responsibility
Not blaming anyone or anything for your situation, INCLUDING YOURSELF. Taking responsibility and responding in a creative way to the situation. Take your problems and creative opportunities out of them. This allows you to take THE MOMENT and turn it into a better situation.Once you do this, every so-called upsetting situation will become an opportunity for the creation of something new and beautiful, and every so-called tormentor or tyrant will become your teacher. Reality is an interpretation. And if you choose to interpret reality in this way, you will have many teachers around you, and many opportunities to evolve. Whenever confronted by a tyrant, tormentor, teacher, friend, or foe (they all mean the same thing) remind yourself, “This moment is as it should be.” Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment. There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution.
#3 Defenselessness
Establish your awareness in defenselessness. You don’t have the attitude of trying to convince or persuade people of your point of view. Which is a interpretation of reality, which we know is a perception. This is something I realized, just check out the people around you, you will notice that most people spend 99% of the time defending their point of view, or trying to search for reasons in the world why they are right. Don’t waste ENGERGY on this. The bottom line is people will ALWAYS perceive the world different due to the psychology of human nature. People associate reality with their beliefs, memories, and experiences. Which creates RANDOMNESS. When you become defensive, blame others, and do not accept and surrender to the moment, your life meets resistance. Any time you encounter resistance, recognize that if you force the situation, the resistance will only increase. Be flexible, be able to to adapt to any situation that arise by GOING FOR OPPORTUNITIES!
“The past is history, the future is a mystery, and this moment is a gift. That is why this moment is called ‘the present’.” Is a GREAT quote I once read in psychology. Write that down!
Just remember always enjoy and do things from the level of happiness, and not from fear or anxiety. Be free of intent, and let the love flow! Be in the moment, don’t think for the next moment, think for what the world is now in the moment because it is meant to be this way!
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