Hi guys, I would like some storys like what was the thing that made you realise that you have less AA now, because you still have it in some situations. I am making babysteps by getting over my AA, sometimes I can approach girls, sometimes can't, but when I am drinking I have approached over 30 sets in a night, but I'd really like to do it when I am sober too so some inspiration storys or what was the the thing when you got over AA would be nice

success builds confidence, but no matter how much success you have, you'll still have AA. Use the 3 second rule, and just go balls deep.

I still have little approach anxiety but not as it was before. In that day I can say that if I see girl that I do like, then approach will be no problem.

I started out simple by asking simpel question..

Where is nearest SPAM machine?

Where is that "famous" sightseeing?

Where is neared coffe shop?

And by doing this.. it went from simpel question to flirting so easily..by asking some "clever" and might aswell "dumb" questions about that location to break the ice. And bang..
If you break the ice it goes easy for you.. then you will see those opprotunities when to close and so on.

How to break AA? Well what i have figuret out so far is that you really cant break it. But you can make it less and less intensive. So just start doing those easy steps and you will build up and find courage to go further.

I cant tell how happy i am that i make my approaches because they reward so much. You get so much confidence by only knowing that you are not part of 95 %, who sits what if.
MOTIVATIONAL quote for you
What Would You Do if You Knew You Couldn’t Fail? I think it relates to PUA so good, but in PUA you only fail if you DONT DO. SO GRAB YOUR NUTS AND GO NUTS

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ITs really simple. IT IS a mindset.

The mindset of not taking theyr rejections serously. Dont caring at all. Of course my job as on door marketeer helped me a lot by getting this mindset, bus still it is something everyone can have.

If you start thinking from the beginning, she might reject me, she will, cause you will approach with a lot of AA and your body language will show your disconfort.

So I never take them seriously and just make fun while approaching. I dont even think about closing them when I approach. Only once the conversation is going I start thinking: Lets try to get a kiss/number close.

So my 5 tips:
1 screen and make fun
2 Hold the 3 second rule, once you see them approach
3 while not thinking
4 Just say Hi _+ something else
5 Once the conversation is going you can start thinking about how to build the conversation to a close


BTW, that something else by step 4 could be anything like asking directions or a pick up line.
PU lines have only 1 task, they have to start a conversation. They have to lead to middle game. Therefore I dont care if they are direct or indirect. If she starts talking its good, because then you can build your conversation on what she is saying.

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Know your enemy and know yourself and you can fight a hundred battles without disaster -Sun Tzu

Sweet guys, ty alot. I know because only sober sets I have done have been started with some direction help or something like that I like this quote: I miss 100% shots I don't take.