I didn't know if I should have put this in this section or the routine section but whatever.
Any way some nights you just can't do it. they are very few but they still happen.
Last night was one such night. As the night kept going I stoped and listend to the first impulse or voice in my head. I never really did that untill last night. Before it was always oh I'm scared must be becuase I'm afraid of a blow out or somthing.
But my first thoughts to myself is thes routines. won't work. They are lame. Even though I have done them many times and had great succces.
My question is Am I the only one who has ever thought this? or Any ideas on how to combat this situation?
For those who read this thanks, I hate reading long posts.

great. I'm the only one.

I agree with you, I often look at some of the routines or lines people use and think "Shit that sounds lame" and so I only use the ones that I think are good, because if I don't really believe in what I'm saying then I'll show incongruence and wont deliver it properly. If I believe what I'm saying then I can say it with conviction and congruently. My advice is to only use the routines you think will work and not ones that you're unsure of.

Oh, and this might not work for everyone, but I use a lot of self-talk to hype myself up. I tell myself I'm the best looking guy in the room, that girls would be lucky to talk to me, and if I feel fear then I think "Stop being a fucking pussy, you miss every shot you don't take, you wont get anywhere in life if you don't grow a pair" and usually this is enough for me to conquer my fear. Just have unshakeable belief and faith in yourself

Yeah totally agree with ilustrado point about talking to yourself...
Actually is not that much about saying stuff in you're head than thinking of yourself as high status. It's hard to always stay confident no matter what, I've got to admit it's big work for me but it's worth it!

As for you Homer, my suggestion is to remember that what you say is far more less important than how you say it. I was reading somewhere that what you say just count for 7 %.

So when the MPUA tell you to smile, well it's because it does increase you're chance of sucess... A lot!