hi

basically, there's this girl A that i have been absolutely INFATUATED with for well over a year. i had never met her and she doesn't even know who i am. she's a friend of a few friends on facebook. i had never saw her in person until today when i was walking down the street and she parked her car right behind me. i turned to see who it was and it was her. in my head i was thinking 'holy shit it's actually her' but i just couldn't do anything other than turn and walk on because i had no idea how to approach her. i know where she lives now and it's actually not far away from where i live at all but obviously i'm not just going to go and knock on her door. at least i know there are more opportunities for us to bump into each other in town or something.

i think i just need to approach more women and boost my non-existent game so that when i finally see this girl again i'll know how to approach her. she'll be graduating next year (as will i) so i have a year to get my act together, approach women and then in a year's time try and get to know her more. and please don't say 'there are plenty more fish in the sea' i mean i know that rejection is all a part of the game but i just really want to maximise my chances of having this girl at least go out with me and don't want to throw her away on just a 'test' run of my first approach. even if it does lead to rejection (and, obviously, there's a good chance that it will) i'd rather wait a year and try to perfect it as much as possible and still be rejected rather than just 'go for it' now and think in a year's time about the 'what ifs' of me being better prepared.

i don't really know what i hope to accomplish by this post but i felt like i needed to tell people of the situation i'm in.

thanks for reading.

Well, I wish you the best my friend. I will say that whatever you use as your motivation to improve with women is good in my books. However, in all likelihood your experiences this year will lower the effect this mystery girl has on you to nothing. And, you will end up with hotter more interesting women in the end.

Set your sights high and enjoy the journey!
Cheers

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