So long story short, Im at a small get together tonight. not too many girls, a decent amount of guys.
Im at the girls apartment who ive been thinking about since the last time i saw her. Something about her just catches my attention
So anyway, I arrive with my roommate and I immediately notice the party has died down (going off how my roommate was previously describing it)
I saw the blonde girl I wanted to talk to shortly after I walked in but she was in the middle of a large circle on the balcony so i ignored the 3 second rule (its just what happened, im not proud of it)
well I walked back inside and was getting pretty bored as nothing was really happening. I was just standing by the counter slightly socializing when the girl walks up from behind and sits on the chair right next to me.
She was too close to possibly avoid, I had to say something. The only thing that came out of my mouth was hey, whats up?
she said whats up back to me but then after that ABSOLUTELY NOTHING came to my head. It only took about 10 seconds before she was up and gone but in those 10 seconds a million things flashed through my head of what to say but trust me, none of them were a good idea or would have made any sense.
I know the girl is already at least SLIGHTLY interested in me based off eye contact and the fact that the first time i met her I heard her ask one of my best friends what my name is. we had already been talking a little that night, and she wouldnt be asking for someones name that she doesnt care anything about. in my opinion. So it should be easy right? nope lol.

all I want to know is wtf I should have done or said. because even now that im not there in that situation I still cannot think of what I should have asked her.

Please help me

say those million things, give yourself permission to not have to get her, fuck it up, just talk, look her in the eyes, and vomit words, do this until you don't care anymore about what will happen, at that point, work on skills, one thing at a time

and seriously, what ever it is, when you the feeling you want to do it, do it, if your thinking 'I want to talk to this girl' then a million things run through that aren't good enough, that is just your lack of abundance comming through, the fact that you don't already have girls on your jock = scared to fuck it up cause you need it,

and anything is better then nothing, you say what's up, she says what's up, if you suck, just start saying what is in your head or asking a shit load of boring interview questions and work up the courage to say I like you, most likely won't get you laid, but at least you will have a reference experience where you tried something new instead of doing nothing, eventually you will get more brave and more brave with the more experience you gain, there is no magic thing to say at one point, it's who you are and how you feel about things, how certain of what you are doing you are, not the words or actions, but how you use your words and actions, it's being sure of them, this comes with experience via doing, someone could give you the perfect thing to say and if you are not sure of yourself or the line, the delivery will fail (think of it like telling a joke, if the person is confident while telling the joke they will probably get laughs, if not, they will probably suck)

GOOD LUCK