every girl i ever gamed/liked in my life before and after pua has a bf. i found this out through talking to her friends, fb profiles and seeing them with thier bf's. it makes me sooo fucking depressed. im not the most good looking of guys so i doubt even with my tightest game ill never get her .
what exactly is the point of pua if they're all taken?

stop complaining. realize that if you want to achieve results in gaming, you have to make realistic goals. this means that you have to go out there more often or lower your standards. if every girl you've approached has had a bf, then clearly something is wrong the numbers side of your strategy or you are setting your targets way too high.

clearly the better looking girls are more likely to have boyfriends, so you have to play the numbers game with them. how many approaches have you made? how long have you been approaching girls? unless the first answer is at least 5 girls and the second answer is a consistent 10 weeks, keep at it and you will see results.

it's a fact that most girls up to the mid 20's are still single. you must lower your standards. one of the reasons why i and many friends that i know have failed in the dating world is being way too picky regarding looks. learn from my mistakes. i regret not being open to having relationships with more girls or approaching more women. what i could have gained from those experiences greatly outweigh the benefit in passing up a 7,8 for a 9 or 10. those would have been experiences would have vastly improved my game through knowledge and possibly make the past few years more enjoyable.

if you're young, don't screw yourself with excessively high standards. be realistic and go out there and make more approaches to a greater variety of women. and if you are patient, you'll have built up your dating experience so that when that girl of your dreams comes around, you're ready.

best of luck!

You're right - you won't get her. Not with that attitude.

You need to establish some beliefs within yourself.

- Energetica

This was my mind set for waaaay to long. You have to realize something. And before you read on, get ready to have your believes shattered.
Ready?

Ok.

1. Boyfriends doesn't matter.
Based on my experiences, the hardest time to get a taken girl is when she is with her boyfriend 3-6 months. Anything less she feels like she's not invested yet. Anything more, she USUALLY starts looking for new excitement.

2. Looks doesn't matter.
Just today I have approached a perfect ten. Even though i have some approaches behing me, still scared as hell because i saw her as out of my league. But i opened her with high energy. Talked a few minutes, then i said i have to go. We hugged, she gave me a kiss on a cheek and we're meeting tomorrow.
All that matter to girls is how you make them feel, not how you look. Do your best in terms of clothing and hygiene, and thats it.

3. Lie, cheat and steal

I don't like it but the fact is this is the world we live in. If you want a good job, you have to beat other applicants. If you want a great woman, you have to beat other men. And the thing i ALWAYS have in mind: If she is happy with her boyfriend, she will not have anything with you. You cannot destroy something what is "ment to be". If she sees you as better man that him, she will probably be more happy with you. And my guide line in pickup is making me and other people happier.

Just because a woman has a boyfriend doesn't mean that she's unavailable. Sometimes they may be looking for a replacement. I once went out with a girl and we had a good time. She flirted with me a lot in the bar that we met. I later found out on facebook that she had a boyfriend. I de-friended her. Looking back over the situation I regretted this.

Yeah, they have boyfriends... who cares, though?

In my opinion, the bf's are the scrubs who aren't as aesthetic and the girl keeps them around for the control because they've bought into the frame.

Clearly, you won't get it if he happens to be more convenient. But if he's away, you got dis.

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