| In this situation don't think of yourself as trying to find an opener.
Day game is different than club game because women don't have guys stopiing them or hitting on them throughout their day like in the club. In the club a women get hits on often, so you have to be different with an opener or some DHVing.
In day game this isn't the case. You really don't need to look for an opener to use. You should simply express how you feel.
Make sure you body language is on point(it is CRUCIAL in day game)
Make sure you aren't fidgeting, and make solid eye contact.
I do a lot of day game. In fact this is where i do most of my approaches. I am not a huge club person.
During day game the best think to do is express how yoy feel..maybe you think shes georgeous, maybe you like her fashion style, maybe you like the way she walks, anything, you just have to be prepared to transition from the opener and not give her an interview with a shit load of questions.
What you want to do is, let her pass you, then when she gets past you turn around, and then slightly touch her on the arm(lower are elbow area, DONT GRAB HER, just a light touch since she may have headphones in or something, if not you can simply say "excuse me":
Example:
"Excuse me, i was just walking past and noticed you. I just had to tell you i think your gorgeous..And i just had to introduce myself...I'm _____."(Smile)
She will probably smile at you or say thanks and tell you her name.
From there say let her know its nice to meet her and then you should find something specific about her you like other than her eyes, lips, things that she cant control. She will appreciate it much more if its something she can control becuase women put alot of work into there clothes and apparel.
"You know, you really have a cute smile...(pause)..I have a thing for girls with cute smiles..So keep smiling"
She will probably laugh or blush after you say that and then make a statement or compliment you, from here transition ask her something like "So what do you do?" And then connect from their dont just ask a question then another and another. Ask a question then talk about it, or try to find a way to connect.
Or ask her what shes up to. She may say meeting friends or something like that.
You could say.
"Oh nice, you seem like you are the type of girl to keep a lot of friends around her"
Make a statement like this(cold read) it baits her into telling you more about herself.
She will then answer and tell you if she is or not, then you could talk about that and then ask why.
After the discussion is over seal the deal.
"I wish i could stay and talk but i gotta get going. Listen, i would love to have coffee/go out for drinks/ go to the park(WHATEVER) with you. So whats the best way of contacting you?"
There ya go. Or instead of asking whats the best way to contact you, you can ask for her number directly..
After saying something like about, leave out the last part about contact her and say.
Pull out your phone:
"Here put your number in my phone and ill call/text you so we can arrange when and where"
if you follow the simple steps above she more than likely will give it to you if you, and appreciate a guy stopping her in the middle the DAY to meet her. It goes along way.
When she puts her number in your phone make sure you make a joke like:
"Im going to name you "Jessica the fashion girl" "
Or something silly like this to avoid it being a moment of silence while she puts her number in your phone.
There you go! Now get out there and try again!!
Sluggler
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