i need some kind of an approach for the this girl who just said on facebook she was having problems with her bf. i havent met her in person but we are cool enough with each other. We are not in the friendzone im sure of. what should i text to her??

Now when it comes to girls with boyfriend, it depends on several things.

Firstly how long have her and her boyfriend been together?
a) They've been together for a long time: They may just be getting bored of each other but they are majorly in love so i would avoid these women.
b)They've been going out for about 6-12 months: This means they're going through the change from honeymoon period to serious period, all couples have problems in this stage and unfortunately for you will stop soon.
c)They've been going out less than 3 months: They're not good for each other and so shouldn't stay together.

For you the c group is clearly the easiest and so i would use this method.
You want to be there for her to help her through and get the booty after she's single as a rebound but you don't want to help so much that you become just a friend helping out. If i were you i'd tell her that she should move on and that you're there for her to. Invite her to meet up round yours one evening and say she can stay the night to avoid her bf. Get a bottle of wine and spoil her to make sure that she loses some of her inhibition. I'd would try and kiss close her using a routine such as the good energy routine from speed seduction.

Tell her to remember the last time she felt really good about herself and get her to show you where the joy was felt. Get her to focus her energy onto this good spot of her body and pretend to take it away from that spot into your finger tips and rub your fingers all over her body to spread it. She should slowly be gaining more trust from you and becoming happier within herself.

You should drag this specifically over her back, then her neck, her chest, down her stomach and up her thighs. I would then place it over her lips and hopefully you'll be recieveng some IOI's such as closed eyes or maybe even moaning. Then get her to shut her eyes and focus the energy on her lips.

If you have recieved three or more IOIs in the evening, Such as the hand squeeze return, or as mentioned earlier closed eyes and moaning, then you should go in for the kiss on her lips and she should accept it.

This is a great way to start. Honestly unless she's a massive slut she won't sleep with you soon if she's been with the guy for a long time. If you still want to sleep with her after she has gotten over her boyfriened then i would stay away from trying to make her feel better for fear of being in the friend zone but then come back maybe a month to six weeks later and try again.

Unless you have massive cajunas and try this routine even if they have been going out for a long time.

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