| You opened and you made her laugh. If this was your first approach, then its more than enough.
Even if you don't get the number, the sole fact that you approached will be helpful.
This reminded me on one of my approaches. I was getting a sandwich from the nearby bar next to my university and in front of it there was a 9 sitting alone and drinking milkshake. On my way out I had some time to kill before exam, I just sat at the chair next to her, telling her that my friends are running late an that she also looked like she needed some company. Then she said that she's not alone and that she is waiting for a friend, showing on two dudes sittin at the next table with their backs towards us. I asked her if her friend was selling something, he actually was, some insurance or sth.
Then the conversation "ran along" (whenever someone says to me something like this, you know "one thing lead to another"style i get pissed off, but this is exactly what happened). We talked about where we go to school, what she wants to do (she wanted to be a teacher), then we somehow got to transportation (when she asked me where i was from I didn't tell her, saying that she might be some weirdo and she would stalk on me; she was shocked; immediatly after that I asked her where she was from and she told me right away.)
Anyway, after 25minutes her friend (from the way she looked at him they were probably dating) came and introduced himself - that was actually the time me and her introduced ourself to each other. We talked about his job a little, then they started talking about a gift that they have to get for a friend, cutting me of the conversation. I jumped in with suggesting a gift (marshmallows, and doing some joke about burning them and how I like them more "raw"-she loved the idea for gift).
Then I said I have to go and that I will see them around. As I left the table, I turned around and added: "Or not!" with a big smile because of what I had just done.
If you want to improve your game, don't obsess about getting number. Obsess about getting your convo skill to max.
My story missed your question.
When you see her again, you shoud make her laugh again, create connection and ask her for her number because SHE will be joining YOU in something interesting (You look adventurous, I'm going skydiving/zorbing/climbing next week, you should join me) or you will be doing something together (that restaurant where you HAVE to show her some awesome food or that AMAZING coffee at that place or that SUPER OLD dinosaur at the museum - you get the idea, doesn't really matter what it is, just as long you're entusiastic bout is, she tends to follow.) It usually works for me.
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