Sex honestly isn't the first thing on my mind. I'm much more interested in having a relationship. Before I can do that, though, I need to know how to find girls who are dominant in bed and in personality. I'm just not a fan of being the dominant one. It doesn't feel...right, tbh. I already know all the psychological reasons behind that. lol Anywho, there seems to be way, way, way, way more sub girls than dom ones out there. I have a brief idea how to spot them (very brief), and I've been able to pick up on a few here and there, but it's really hard. I was really hoping you guys would have some advice for spotting these girls. Anything you can suggest would be awesome, whether it be conversation based, body language, or whatever.
Also, on a side note, I'm like 5"2'. Anyway I can use my height to my advantage there?

Dominance---

1.) the assert themselves

2.) they dont care about permission or approval from others

3.) they tell you what to do.

4. ) they have strong opinions.

However, you don't want to be submissive. When you are submissive you are not incontrol of your life. Nor do I think women are generally attracted to submissive men. They want someone to stand up for them, to protect them and to handle situations.

Submissiveness usually can be cored with more confidence. Just about everyone desires to assert themselves on the world. Everyone however does not have the confidence to.

At the risk of diverting the main topic of discussion, I'm actually very assertive in just about everything else. The main reason I'm submissive when it comes to interaction with women goes alllll the way back to my mom not really being around. At least, that's where I've traced the majority of it to. There's bits and pieces from other places.
I'm not sure it's really something I can change. On that note, I'm not really sure it's something I want to change. It's just a part of who I am. s:
Besides (and I'm generally curious, not trying to be abrasive), why wouldn't a dom want a sub?

Interesting post.

I don't think you will have much chance with a good looking dominant woman. Women fundamentally want a man to be the dominant one. It is at the very of core game and human sexuality. The whole entire point of this entire forum is to learn guys how to display higher value and thus become more attractive. Higher value is showing that you cannot be controlled and are the Alpha male.

In fact the fact that you are even asking this proves that either you have not read or studied the material and what its about or that you fundamentally don't understand it.
If you did you would accept that if you want to be successful with women you will have to change and become an alpha male or at least project that long enough to get to where you want to get with a woman. No woman will ever truly love a man she can dominate period.