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| Synatics | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:41 am | |
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Posts: 1 | | I find opening pretty easy but once I've given my opener which is usually either "Who lies more, guys or girls?" or Style's 'Jealous girlfriend' opener where do I go?
Once I have their thoughts on the opener, what do I say to get them to keep talking? It's a bit like yeahhh you have our opinion now so .. why are you staying here.
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| laidbacklover | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 4:36 am | |
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Location: Australia | | Honestly, you should say whatever is on your mind.
If you are relying on scripts this early on it will hamper your development.
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| BLUU | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 4:39 am | |
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Location: Des Moines, IA | | Scripts helped me to build confidence in approaching. That way I didn't have to worry about what to say.
I was never sure how to transition from the opinion opener on to real conversation.
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| laidbacklover | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 4:55 am | |
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Location: Australia | | You think they helped you...but more likely they held you back.
After your opinion opener you should say "sorry that was just an excuse to talk to you, I think you're cure what's your name" while looking her dead in the eye, and holding out your hand.
Do this 100 times and you will develop way further and faster then using scripts.
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| night strider | PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 3:35 pm | |
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Location: Metro Manila - Quezon City | | But wouldn't it defeat the purpose of using an indirect opener which is to hide interest from the target?
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