Hey guys first post here. There is a drop dead gorgeous girl that I graduated with last year. And i mean literally 10/10, perfect body, face, and now a cheerleader for Baylor. Anyways we used to be pretty good friends and she did flirt with me while we were in HS (she is flirty in general). Anyways yesterday I saw here at my community college, she was in her car pulled up saying "hey handsome" and we had a breif talk. Anyways I want to shoot her a message on FB, but want something better then "hey how are you", something that makes me stand out. Thanks to anyone who replies!

"A wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something." -Plato

You want to send this girl a message on Facebook because you wish you had said more when you were presented with a golden opportunity in person. This is the path to neediness and obsession.

Instead of bugging this chick with irrelevant crap on Facebook, learn the lesson at hand (namely that you should never waste the chance to speak to a beautiful woman) and apply it to your future interactions. Forget about this one girl ... for now.

Your boy,
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Yeah I feel you, defiantly should have said more in person, but there were cars and stuff behind her so I didn't have the chance. Plus I honestly care if she doesn't reply or rejects. So I do want to at least send something.

And because you are so attached to the outcome of this misguided message, it is less likely to be successful.

What's wrong with leaving a pleasant interaction as it is without trying to force it into becoming more on Facebook? Surely at some point your paths will cross again, and you'll be in a much better position to make something happen THEN if you don't insist on trying to make it happen now.

Your boy,
870

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I agree with them. Don't bug her.
but if you do decide to message her, you need to justify it.

ex.
"hey i saw your twin today at blahblah!"

"hey, know of any parties tonight? me n my friends are trying to find something"

"i was just at blahblah right now and it reminded me of that one time we blahblah'd"