Hey everybody im new to the community and to be honest, i was inspired to become from an AFC to a PUA after watching Gambler,Style,Mystery,etc.

So my question might apply to many guys out there,but i want to know if im still early to change my life. I dont really go out the house,i dont have a job,i only go to college,i barely have any friends. i usually only play video games,i used to record music,and im a guy of a few words in person.

with my lifestyle,can i still get a girlfriend? theres a girl i like and i feel like i can as long as i have verbal game,but i also feel like i cant because of my poor uninteresting life i dont know what to do

PUA is targeted specifically at guys like yourself (and me for that matter). If anything Style and Mystery should inspire you because they were self-proclaimed geeks. As Mystery describes "geeks" are often very smart people who have yet to apply themselves to social situations. Work hard, read a lot of material and most of all have confidence in the fact that if any other man can achieve this so can you.

Also you describe your lifestyle as "boring". Your actions dictate the results. Why don't you join college societies or even continue recording music and start going out more. You can change your life in any way you desire.

Peace. Keep your goals in sight.

sure you can get a GF anyone can. can you get that specific girl? It depends, maybe not. But why should you want? There's much better around I bet.
Get higher standards.

I guess my main concern is that i dont have that "entertaining" lifestyle that most guys have and trust me, girls love to be entertained, but can i still get a GF without that fun lifestyle where you must have a job, you must have money, you must have a lot of friends?

even though i have the verbal game that make women curious,laugh,etc, am i ready to get a GF or should i work on my lifestyle first? high school was different but im in college where i cant be in a relationship "just to mess around"

No, most guys do NOT have an entertaining lifestyle whatsoever. If they are in college just like yourself, what aspects of their make it more entertaining then yours?

Besides getting wasted every weekend most college kids, like myself, rely on their parents for financial support and generally don't have a fancy, fun lifestyle. The more girls you have interested in YOU the more exciting your life will be.

Everyone has a boring life in their own eyes. If your game is strong enough you won't have to spend a lot of money to keep a girl entertained or happy.

you are very mistaken if you need any money to entertain. actually all you need is to use your brains.
when I started I was really poor compared to the average guy and I was also concerned about it. there's a lot you can do without a single cent. money is a non issue.
about having a job, really? a job? that's actually boring.
friends? but she's going to date you or your friends? just forget it.

it's all about perception. and power doesn't come from money comes from your head. Poor people date too and some with great success far more then rich people. rich people only get laid because of that because of the money not because of anything else.
actually it's easier if you are average then being rich.
perception is everything.

One way I've found make myself more entertaining is by being creative.
Make some interesting games, think about some thought provoking topics, etc... there's always bound to be some. The key however to conversation is to listen to what people are saying, ask about how they felt, why do certain things.

Sample discussions: fate, issues between men and women, personalities, psychology, stereotypes, dreams, childhoods and so on. (avoid religious, political and logical discussion unless you know the girl likes them)

Sample activities: roleplay husband and wife, palm reading, sightseeing, walk in a park, visit a library, cooking, shopping etc... (most of these can be done at no cost)

This is just a starter too. I'm sure an intelligent guy like you could come up with more and entertain for hours with this stuff.

Not having a job while you are in college is one of the few times you get a free pass.

You will have to leave the house. Video games depend on the game. Social and retro games are popular with girls. Usually in a social setting that isn't necessarily a party. If you are talking about WOW or something along those lines it won't work. Arcade Game Bars are also becoming popular date destinations.

Recording music? Unless we're talking polka here you're golden.

Few words? Not that much of an issue. I bet you talk more on subjects that interest you. Find the middle ground between subjects of interest to you and things she finds interesting.

A really good job/hobby to have in college for guys that don't typically have a lot to say is being a DJ. If you're good at it you have a fall back job that pays decently as well.

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Salvyguy, you said you "Like to play video games"?

Are you any good at these games?

Pick Up is a game just like the one you are playing, if you are good at them you will be good at this! Same amount of time, dedication, and understanding of the game applies in anything you do in your life. All you need to do is be the Uber PUA that you have inside you!

Peace...

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@unknownpoet
your right about the no money issue, but this is real life, its no longer high school. think about it, without the money, where would i take her? what would i buy her? i have money, just not in abundance, thats why im looking for a job so i can buy a car soon...
about the friends situation, i only have a few but close friends, but what if she asks to meet my friends when they are not available? i dont want to come off as a "loner" to her, which im not. also, i dont really get invited to parties, so i can forget about that one.
sure, i can make women smile and everything, but when she asks, what did you do this weekend? i dont want to say "not much and you?"

@Slamboy
Sure a lot of guys live their lives like i do, but from my perspective, they all have fun. all they talk about is drinking, going to parties, having nice jobs, cars, women, etc where in my situation, i dont do or have none of these.
what i do know is that material things represent what you achieve and girls love that stuff. i still live with my parents, but i dont plan on staying there forever! what would be the first plan you would make with a girl you like and just met?

@Seasquare
Youre right man. all i have to do is search within myself and find that desire to make her smile and keep her like that, no matter what i do/say or give.
this is where it gets challenging.i suppose i can go out with her and talk to her about that, talk to her about our childhood, about the future, family, relationships and other things, but like the topic says, will i entertain my "girlfriend" enough with the things i just mentioned or should i try other things?

@Youwish99
i play video games for playstation 3 like call of duty, etc. thats one of my hobbies. the other two are recording music and traveling. maybe i should discover my desires more in order to make myself more interesting for a girl.
Na, im not a famous singer, yet.....havent even finished a mixtape.
yea im a drama-free person, so i dont do gossip. i think this is where girls will wonder if i have an incredible social life with a bunch of curiosity for her. i wonder sometimes, there are guys who live a descent and non crazy life who dont really go out, arent rich, kinda lonely also, yet they have girls. i ask myselff, how do they keep her happy when the girl is in his reality that doesnt move/revolve around entertainment?

@Crypto
Yea i actually put effort into everything i play, except for sports, im not that aficionado sports fan, but with video games i know the rules and the outcomes vary, my friend. what i was asking is if i could still get a girl with little hobbies and small amount of friends while living with my parents and dont have a car?