in most sports theres a saying that goes around and its this "your only as good as your last performance!".
I use this in pick up when you go out to pick up or even just talk to women, the first girl that tells me to f*** off or turns me down thats my limit, the next girl I go for has to be as good looking or better than that first rejection this forces me to improve and Challenge myself.
some might see this as a negative way to approach the situation cause your almost expecting rejection well I say embrace rejection cause thats how you learn.

Thanks for Reading

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

I've never thought of it like that way

Rather than lower your standards after a rejection why not up it

Soncheese x

my standards is always the best girl in the room. nothing less then that. if for some reason I fail, I try it to transform into a positive thing. I mean, people will see a gorgeous woman giving me attention and that creates more interest from other woman, despite the close. that and other things sets myself as the alpha male of that room.

A lot of men these days lower their expectations because they themselves feel that can't reach the top. In our cases, the hottest woman. I know I'm a result of that. I guess it is that primal urge to get something out of nothing. Thanks for the post, Dirty Preacher. Just gave me a bit of motivation.[/b]

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"All war is Deception." - Sun Tzu

thanks for the opinions guys!
nice to see the subject so popular

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

Doubleedge sword idea. For one side the likelyhood of it working is low, for the other if it does work youre setting yourself with someone higher up than you would have if you did the oposite

There is no rejection, only feedback. Well thats how I am trying to think, because I don't want to get rejected .
How would it make you feel if you got shot down by a 6, noticed a 8, ran game and kiss closed or number closed. Freakin' awesome! I bet you would forget about the 6 pretty quickly, seems like a good idea. Unless of course you get shot down again Then, try, try again. It's all feedback, just change up your game.

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A person in authority, with authority, speaks slowly. It shows confidence.

Its great for avoiding oneitis. Its all about drilling it in your head that its never just about 1 girl. Failure is measured by how you react and pick yourself up.

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.