ok guys so i feel i have a sticking point when it comes to open a conversation after the opener when i approach...
so i like the compliment opener which i saw here in the forum and is going smt like :

ME: hey, do you consider yourself enough self-confident to get a sincere compliment?

HB:yeah..

ME: good,me too, go ahead!

ok so she laughs a bit and then how do i continue should i just intorduce an intersting topic? well when it comes to join an active conversation as part of a group im really C&F and being the middle of attention but how do i pass the river between those two phases?

any help would be appreciated!

You can remain silent for a moment staring at her waiting for the compliment. She'll probably make a compliment and you can ask her why she thinks that, then introduce yourself and talk about anything (you can go to the midgame section to see how to continue).

If she doesn't make a compliment she'll say something like:

- "Why do I have to make a compliment? I'm not the guy here".

Then you could throw some funny neg like:

- "Well, for being a girl, you have manly hands." (That's a pretty strong one, only for HB9-10).

The only thing that you have to remember is to keep talking, don't let there be an uncomfortable silence moment.

Good luck!

SilverBack

If she does anything but complement, say:

"Wow, you aren't very good at this are you?" and then "Neg" something about her! Keep a positive frame.

Peace...

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