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Try it a few times and see how it goes. It's unique and original and likely something she hasn't heard before which can work in your favor.
She could counter with something such as "and I don't look good now?" Of course you could talk your way out of it if you get a chance, but it's going to put you off with a lot of girls in an awkward direction. Also, I don't think it's necessary to compliment their backside as an opener. I'm also not a big advocate of approaching from the back b/c it can startle them and they don't have a chance to see and evaluate you before the conversation. I've had women approach me from the back before and it startles me. You got 3 risky things there that can totally bust you. It can also overwhelm her b/c it's pretty outrageous.
Based on my experience, I never thought complimenting their physical appearance as an opener was a statistically high percentage tactic b/c the better looking women can be automatically turned off by it. When women compliment my looks it turns me off b/c I already know I'm hot. They are just stating obvious and boring stuff. Most likely if you have a situational opener, they won't be turned off but they are going to still realize you probably wouldn't have spoke unless you didn't think they were quality enough to speak too. so you still have the chance to transition it in to something more sexual within the frame work of the conversation.
I will have to disagree with this. the whole reason for this is for it to be a great neg that knocks her off her horse and makes her want your acceptance. And when you tap her, you are doing something called kino. even if its the very slightest amount, such as a tap on the shoulder, this kino is your "way in" to get more involved with the kino tactics with her.
I would also like to agree completely with what puaninja posted above.
It is and I understand what you and puaninja are saying that it's a quick way to weed outs, but there are things that generally speaking are more effective as an opener. I can't say do not ever use it but it has to be the right situation. I will admit it can be clever and causes the ultimate "what does he mean by that" but its my experience that type of stuff is more effective a little later in the conversation if you tweak the wording and not as the first line.
As far as your idea on kino, from what little I know about how it's taught in books, the touching is used after there has been some degree of initial interaction, even if nothing more than eye contact. Tapping the shoulder from behind to get someone's attention is not qualified as kino to me b/c as it's happening, she doesn't know who is back there. And you will find that a lot of the hotter ones are reluctant to turn around and look b/c they figure it to be someone they don't want to talk to anyway so instead they may walk off or talk to the person beside them or form a negative opinion before they turn around you have to fight back from.
Try your tactic about 10 times and see how it works for you and who you are pursuing. Anytime you think you have this perfect strategy in your head something is going to happen where you have to alter the plan at the last split second. Like what if you get there and she turns around as you come up. can you bull shit your way through your initial strategy or are you going to be standing there with nothing to say and a blank look b/c she busted your idea? What if you tap she turns around and she says "don't touch me". Just don't let it hurt your pride and you will be ok.
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and the gal must be more confident