plz share all ur best tecniqes on gettng women to dance with u. PLEAZE

Ive had the same delemma for years.. it always felt creepy to sneek up to a girl for a little Grindskies from behind.. so i realised you gotta be more verbal.. this is what i do...

1. if its dance music, wait for a sequence where the beat drops and theres less noise.

2. say "i though id take this opportunity to come talk to you guys while the music is lower.. you guys having a good time.. celebrating something, or just partying?.. who you here with?.. yadda yadda.."

3. This actually works quite well.. say "check.. i gotta get back to my friends, but in a couple songs im gunna be back and you'll show me your moves..."

4. Come back, dont say anything, take her hand, make her do a spin move (salsa style) let her go, step back, say "show me what you got".. do a silly robot dance or something.. if the vibe is good and its one ie. shes smilling and enjoying your presence, you go ease ease into her, but always make sure to give her space by pushing her away, then grabbing back (creating fun tension)

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I say avoid the dancefloor... Too many things to distract her from your game...

My rant on Dancefloors:

The dancefloor can either be a waste of time or a gold mine.. depends on your personallity.. im an introvert. Talking in a loud place makes me unconfortable. Yet i shine in clubs and i love it. I like things the most non verbal possible. The floor is perfect for this.. For me, my body language takes over.. i can tease, be cocky, be funny, show disinterest, show interest, whatever.. Im not like everyother guy; i dont stick to a girl like velcro once she agrees to dance.. you got to push her away.. tell her to show you her moves.. make fun.. I find all this 10x more fun than running a canned thing about ladders and horses on a cube or pretending that im exited about a girls lame life experiences.

Dancing is a universal communicator of your sexual energy.. every culture has had its own form, since forever. Its fucking primitive and raw. I really believe your game is incomplete if you dont know how to communicate with your body through dancing. A girl will fantasize about a alpha guy leading her in a salsa dance in a sweaty spanish club. I doubt they fantasize about having their palms read. Ask any girl; if a guy can dance well, he automatically scores points in the sex potential department. I dont know if the same association is made if the guy rolls up in a top hat showing magic tricks.

Its really too bad now dance floors are tainted with guys trying to shove their crotches incessantly on chicks. This causing these girls to put up thick bitch shields, and ice up hard to a guy like me that could make them have a lot of fun. Im forced now to mix in a little verbal stuff (as my post above) to open them up to me.

Im lucky enough to live in a city with an amazing night life, great clubs and by far the hottest girls (montreal). I take advantage of this and I make no mistake in adding dancing to my arsenal as a PUA. Its one of a few 'techniques' out there that is actually genuinely fun. Having fun should be everyones top priority.

woah got defensive on dancing im not very good myself but heres wat I would say.

Crash: This is boring me, lets dance.

Woah I love this song I'vey got to show you the routine (works well with soulja boy)

Crash: Can you dance?
HB: No/Yes
Crash: Dont be a stiff I'll teach you/Dont be a stiff prove it

Crash: Your at a nightclub and your not dancing
HB: blah blah blah
Crash: comn your lucky, ill be your partner for this song

Wherever you are at is the funnest place to be. I used to stay stuff like that until I realized that it's not a neg and it's just insulting to girls.
hm I wouldn't show girls stuff. That's proving yourself to her. Instead make her prove herself to you. Get her to teach you how to do the routine. Then even if you totally ef it up it's her fault.
I like this, but I think that last line is uneccessary. Instead just stick out your hand and lead her to the dance floor. lol some excellent points soap. Speaking with your body is the best way to communicate in a club. I always imagine I'm a mime that's a pimp when I'm in a club. It may be because I'm a smaller guy, but I can get away with all kinds of shit in clubs that I couldn't get away with in the daytime. I grab girls and move them around and shit. I grab 2 or 3 and make them have a dance off. I made 2 have a kiss off once, but they ended up going home with each other instead of me . Clubs are all about physical dominance and kino. You have to realize that 90% of the time they can't hear shit of what you are saying, so all they have to go off of is your physical vibe. I almost always touch girls right off the bat in clubs. I've noticed most guys are afraid to do this, so I touch them, then back up a couple steps to show that I will be touching them, but I'm not going to be clingy. Then I open them. Then If I want I lead them to the dance floor I do. Once I'm already on the dance floor it's easy to just grab random chicks and start dancing with them. Girls in clubs are horny, they want to fuck. This isn't because they are sluts it's because all the stimulus they are getting. Normal clubs for chicks are like strip clubs to guys. The girls are are so horny they just need to find a guy who's alpha enough to take home and not regret it. That can easily be you.

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i agree with dirtysoap.
however, i hit the dance floor every wednesday for mambo nights here where i am from and every weekend.
for me its kinda different cause most of the dudes around me are shorter and lack my sharp features. hence, the chicks usually come to me and kinda dance around me. if they are blatant enough, they`ll probably put their arse in front of u and may even grind you.
but i aint the guy who likes to grind a stranger and takes pleasure in such an act like the other dudes. so here is what i do;
i get behind the chick i want or if she is already in front of me, i brush my right hand on hers and see if she pulls it away. then i hold it softly and turn her around to face me. this way she is pulled away from her friends and now she is in your zone. afterwhich i get her name, talk a bit then ask her either for a drink or whether she`d like to go outside the club for fresh air. once outside or at the bar, i run my routines and stuff.

one thing you MUST know bout club chicks. they have flaws and are socailly insecure. their bitch shields are thick and they are extremely jumpy and afraid in some cases. so just be careful not to get too close too fast. take it a step at a time. doing this for bout an year now and i wont say it works all the time, but when it does, it beats any day time sarge or bar tricks i pull off. casue its WAY much harder to pawn a chick at the dance floor then anywhere else with all the immense competition. plus, when u so succeed, she feels like a prize u won after beatin all those other dudes. enjoy. and happy sarging.

Well, I tested out the famous "Bump and Grind" on New Years and it was really successful. I think the best way to "dance" with a target is just to come up from either beside or in front of them. Very similar to approaching a set. If you come from behind, the ladies are just going to think you want to smack against them with your denim cock. However, approaching face to face with your palms showing is the way to go. Just start dancing and you'll either be accepted or ignored. If you're ignored, shrug it off and go fine yourself a new target.

This one HB9 kept giving me signals to come back and dance with her, throughout the entire night. She even left some AFC who she was grinding with when I walked up to her. I run a "C + F" game, so I kept snapping her thong and she liked it. (I don't recommend this unless you have some serious IOI's) I then K-closed her and ejected.

WOW people have whole routines for getting a girl to dance who is already dancing?

Honestly I have never had an issue dancing with girls.
Walk up, Smile, toucher on the back, Say "lets dance" loud, get to it.

If you can dance try that, if you can't dance at all try it but you won't last long if she can.

CA

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LOl the best way to never get rejected to dancing is to not just walk up to a girl thats dancing but instead talk to the girls on the bar or any place thats not dance area and game them then bring them to the floor...

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i fail to see how this will "never get rejected"

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Just walk up to her and start dancing/dance behind her grab her ass. This works for me week in week out, sure you can get rejected, but whatever....totally standard.

Just make sure you are smiling, and are showing your cheeky/arrogant side, otherwise there is a high risk of just looking creepy.

laters

i find a good way is to try and confuse HBs for a second like the following....... position yourself either on the side of the dance floor dancing or just chatting to a friend (a route to the rest room/ toilet is the best) and as a girl walks near you (facing you) you get her attention try block her off a little or smile to get eye contact then say WHAT U DOIN? WHERE U GOIN? and they like errr bar or need to loo and you go no your not this is my favorite song your coming to dance with me!

pretty much works each time but can look bit silly if a real crap tune is on

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Will the ass grab from behind one to maximize your chances u need to let her see who is doing the grabbing. Obviously most girls ill pull away and look to see who is touching them then they will prob go back to dancing and wont mind u doing it again but its already like a first approach and confidence be down a bit.

Soooo........ just casually bump into her or somehow get her attention that u are the guy behind her and if she likes u she will go along hopefully with the ass grab without having to look as she know it be u. hope that is logical and makes sense lol

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