I have been using these openers for the last year and have always worked, a good opener which I use , as an example I used it last night on and this is how it went on this fantastic 10piece of scandinavian woman.

Me(walking over to her in the smoking area with her group of friends)

make sure you look confident, back straight, lots of eye contact and always smiling, makes you seem approachable.

said to the group- "i'm sorry girls but its a matter of life and death that i speak to her,(and point at your target, in this case the wonderful pair of legs was called Kristina) I am very cheeky cocky when doing this as you dont want the group to actually think you need to talk to her about some random fucking serious situation that you will then have to explain, so don't oversell it)

I then say bluntly, not smiling making strong eye contact, doritos or kettle chips? (its key you keep this whole conversation at a flow and brisk, take her off her guard by asking something she's never heard.

she then replied? 'pardon'

i repeated again the same bluntly and smiling at the end, still keeping strong eye contact.

once she's replied no matter which one she chooses, ask her a follow up question
'which flavour do you prefer?" keep the intensity

once she had replied, i disagreed, showed my disappointment with the woman(lowering her self esteem and taking her off guard again that I'm not interested due to the flavour of her choice of crisps or how you yanks incorrectly say chips)and said it was going so well, then turn around and walk off without saying anything.



later on i stood next to her at the bar, ignoring her waiting for a drink, she then after clearly recognising me and me still ignoring her angelic ignorance, she grabs my shoulder and asks me with her naughty schoolgirl pouty lips, so whats your favourite flavour? rest is history, she's interested, she's slightly bewildered and you continue from there.


my game is down to shocking, random and different, it is better to be remembered then liked.

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