I've been trying to build up the courage to ask this girl out, but today she found out that I like her from someone else. It's quite a long story so I won't go into alot of detail.

She works in a gas station owned by her uncle. Last time I was chatting to her she said that they were going to be knocking down the old car wash. I offered to help them out for free. I was there today. First thing this guy said was "I hear you're out to impress a lady friend today " and I just laughed and said "perhaps"

She arrived for work (she works in the shop) and came over to say hi to everyone. They started teasing me and her about it and we were both bright red!! She is still really nice to me and always smiles at me. Only problem is that I can't even look her in the eye now, let alone ask her out!! She looked like she made an effort to look good today and the guys teased her about it lol (could that effort be because she knew I'd be there?)!! Im not sure if she likes me or not (I have a feeling she does) but I feel obligated to ask her out now but I'm terrified!! I know it's illogical but I'm just too shy lol!!

Need Advice ASAP!!! Going back tomorrow to finish off tearing down the car wash!!

Generally, its not bad for a woman to know you like her. But she needs to be kept in the dark about how much you like her. One thing to keep in mind is that if you don't make a move now it will make you look weak and kill attraction.

Once a woman knows you're interested, she expects something to happen. If you don't do anything, she'll think you're a pussy and lose respect fro you. You're best move is flirting with her and getting her number. Play it cool and confident.

Here are some other tips:

http://romancecheater.com/?p=87

http://romancecheater.com/?p=68

http://romancecheater.com/?p=79

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Stop acting like a little pussy. I don't even understand your question. Allright a girl knows you're attracted to her..and......what's the problem? I don't understand. The only thing you need to do is to handle that pressure mate. You can't become red in front of a girl because your friends are teasing you and not making eye contact anymore? You need to change this as soon as possible or else she will move on. Girl move on reallllyyy quickly. If she finds out you're not a man and you're not even capable of looking her in the eye because "she knows you like her" she's not going to stick around. Stop being in your head..act. Stop asking questions on the forum..you already knew the answer when you posted this. There's no magic pill to women. 95% of the time it's just you being a dominant man, taking action and learning from mistakes. That's how you build game, a life and get better with women

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Like the others have said, this is your one shot. Do it now before its too late.

I wasn't being a pussy, just panicked a bit. When I went back the next day everything was fine. Didnt really get a chance to talk to her though. I was going to ask her out when I had finished work bit I didn't realise that she finished earlier than me and she had already been picked up by her dad.

She's working on Saturday again so I'm going up to see her then. Turns out she really likes me too and she was just as embarrassed lol!!

A man doesn't have the time to panick and obsess over a girl he's not fucking. You were not a man in that situation therefore you were a pussy. Move on and learn

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^ DAYMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM OP, I sympathize with you...but I cannot empathize. Honestly, I had a situation with a girl I was talking to, I leave the set...and turns out we shared a mutual friend that goes "psstt he likes you....he told me." and I overheard it and played it like I didn't hear.

It's a definite annoyance, but I learned it's no big deal...Now in your case she knows...but like others said...that person could be full of shit. You want to off-play it? talk to her and disqualify yourself...say omg i met this amazing girl the other day. She'll be fucking thrown in for a loop. When you disqualify yourself, this is very temporary. Then you can game her, and suddenly "find her"

I agree with the others. Pouring over a girl we're not fucking is very AFC.

Well excuse me for not having much confidence! And excuse me for not being a pick up artist either! I only joined this forum to get some advice from people a bit more experienced in getting women, didn't come here to be called a pussy! You think that because I'm shy and panicked a bit that I'm not a man? And yet you come on Internet forums insulting and judging people anonymously? Yeah your obviously a real man!

I think you are taking what Valentyn said in the wrong way. He is only saying that in reality, this pussy aspect really turns a girl off. You don't have to paint pick up in the wrong way, but honestly this is not a relationship forum for men. It's a pickup forum - so you either need to get with the program or leave.

Thanks for the advice. I think I'm just gonna ask her out on Saturday though. I just find it childish to play games like that. I don't like when a woman plays games with me so I don't play games either. I don't really think this is the right kind of forum for me to be honest. She will probably say yes so why bother messing about anymore? But thanks for your advice though, gives me another strategy to think about lol!

Think I will just leave tbh. I get what he's saying but he's being insulting the way he's wording it. His first post started with "Stop acting like a little pussy" which isn't advice in my opinion and there isn't really any need for that. Like I said I just came for advice and don't think it's fair that some people find it okay to insult me because I'm shy. I'm not trying to make a sob story here but he has no idea about my past and why it's made me so shy. This time two years ago I found it hard to talk to anyone let alone talk to a gorgeous girl!! How can he say that I'm not a man when he's on this forum judging and insulting people he knows nothing about!?

Guys I'm sorry if I hurted your ego. I'm not here to be your friend..I'm here to give you advice and tell you the things you don't want to hear. Stop being so fragile and so sensitive..what you did was not how a TRUE man acts. Period. Ask anyone who understands some good amount of game and he will agree with me. You knew the response to your question when you wrote this thread..did you expect a line that will change your situation? Of course not..you said it yourself that you still want to invite her out..don't take it personally when someone says you're not a man in a situation. That's the truth and you need to face it and find a way to turn it around. I'm not saying I'm perfect or that I'm not sometimes a little bitch or a little pussy..but you in your situation..didn't act like a dominant man. That's the only thing I said..good luck!

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BINGO.

Val, one of the things I've learned... most of the ones that think you're being a dick are the kids (17-22 are kids to me).

This isn't about our egos. If I fuck up, I want to know it - I don't take shit personally. I BAG on my friends in person when they fuck up - it's done with a smile. We don't take shit personally. You CAN'T take shit personally.

Being an MPUA isn't a popularity contest - it's a fucking way of life.

I like to say I'm the hand under Mona Lisa's dress - nobody sees me coming... I prefer to be a silent assassin. I fly under the radar, but slay pussy 3-4x a week consistently.

Grow thicker skin people - nobody's getting their rocks off calling you a poopy-head. When I type, I try to think you're right in front of me - it makes me calibrate my response better...

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Hahaha good quote you made me laugh

If you're capable of removing your ego and accept the fact that you did something wrong or something needs to change with the way you act, you will start to see results. I always see guys getting pissed when I tell them they don't have game..I'm not trying to be mean here..I'm trying to actually tell people: "Hey mate it's time for you to wake up! You think you have game but you don't..wake up and start taking action" This is really a key element to getting good guys..stop being so affected by what people say to you. If you're that affected on a forum, imagine how that will translate when a girl is testing you. A lot of times girl gives you a hard time because they're attracted to you and they want to see if you're a real man. Real men survive they don't back down and they are unaffected by resistance, because they don't have time to obsess over a girl they're not fucking

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