hey guys, heres the situation. A girl I have known for a long time and I occasionally talk, after a couple years of not seeing each other since childhood we went to a couple parties together just as friends I never made any moves. She has issues with her current bf that she talks about with me and it seems as though she is getting a lot out of our convo. She says we should hangout occasionally. Basically, i'd like to get with her when her bf is away for the next month and I think it is doable, i'm just not completely sure the way to go about it.

At some point if i want to kiss her should i say... "I really want to kiss you but you have a bf" to tease her a bit? I think just kissing her might be a risky endeavour, I'm pretty sure she is religious and the kind of person that might not be down with cheating, on the other hand I think she would with a little convincing, but how would I do that.

thanks!

EDIT: also, any tips on getting her alone with me at a party?

My advice is not to try to get her to a party, my advice is to try to get her to your house. Try to get her alone with you. There's a lot of ways to do that, you could ask her for help with school, invite her over to see a show she likes. Then read her body language to see how interested she really is while with you. Then get her to your bed: watch a youtube video or if you have a tv there watch the show from there. And slowly start making moves

I kick myself in the ass when I didn't take the jump when I was in a similar situation that you are in now a couple years back before I knew about the game and the PUA community. Have you ever heard of the saying drunk speak are sober thoughts when A girl get a little alcohol in her system her body language as whether or not she is interested in you or not but at the moment you are in the emotional tampon slot right now and you need to do something unexpected to get out of it.

Here's what happened to me

The first time I met her.

Her room mate and her invited us for a little bit of drinking in their room
we were all having a good time and then I got and went to the mirror in their bathroom just for no reason but to see if my eyes were dialated and a few moment later she asked me to look at her eyes to see if they were I got close to where I could have kissed her if i went a little closer.

That was my first mistake.

The second time I missed it was at a party over at one of her friends house at some point in the night I drove one of her other friends home and then when I returned she was crying because I left without saying anything and all I did was kiss her on her forehead.

The second and last time I had a chance to get with her.

so moral of the story always be on the look out for those subtle signs of interest or as they now call it IOI's