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| DrMing | PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:15 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:09 am Posts: 3 | | There is a girl who is always kind of look at me every time I walk by her on college campus.Ps:I did not know any of her friends. How can i open her? i don't want to be awkward.
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| tohnlsn@yahoo.com.sg | PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2012 10:03 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Apr 08, 2012 10:17 am Posts: 18 | | I am not very good at this but I suggest that you try this. Walk near her and stare at her and ask "why are you staring at me?" She would reply "U are the one staring first".
Reply with "I know... I know, all the girls that want to hang out with me are shy like you". _________________ Big man. Socially deprived. Escaping this cycle.
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| Eric. | PostPosted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 10:43 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:29 pm Posts: 2 Location: London | | ^
Yeah and then get crowned the king of cringe
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| Smooth 0perator | PostPosted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 12:52 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 17, 2011 3:26 am Posts: 153 | | Who cares if your awkward. She's either interested or she isn't. Just go up to her and and tell her you think she's adorable then introduce yourself. The opener doesn't matter just make sure your mid game is decent and you'll number close. You can even try an instant date if she looks like she has nothing to do.
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| DanHMan | PostPosted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jan 09, 2012 8:03 pm Posts: 58 | | Whatever you do in college, do not do a straight up cold approach. This would be very bad. If she turns you down, word could get around and you will have to deal with seeing her for the rest of the year. Just say what's up or hey for the first few times you see her. Then maybe as she recognizes you, tease her about something that shes doing or try to be a little bit funny. Don't ask for her number until she shows major IOI's or starts converation.
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| pumpington | PostPosted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:21 pm | |
Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am Posts: 3276 | | you could just start singing that akon son around her (couldn't help myself but... notice you.... noticin mee, from accross the room couldn't help myself from lookin... noticin you... THAT GIRL IS SOOOO DANGEROUS....*not field tested by the way, but it seems to suit the situation*), then when she looks at you wave or say, hey and smile
or, you could just, walk up and hold eye contact, and say hi
the opener is not very important, if she talks back... the opener worked
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| Tipsy | PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 5:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Apr 03, 2012 1:43 am Posts: 12 Location: Boston | | I dont agree that you should not game in college or any other closed group environment cause "girls are gona spread the word"... I think i she says a guy walked up to me and said I look absolutely adorable will make everyone jealous. Her girlfriends would be jealous that they dont get approached and guys would be jealous of your balls.
So go for it. Especially since she's consistently giving you IOIs. _________________ Best,
Tipsy
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| Tiffany | PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:21 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:31 am Posts: 171 | | Just go talk to her. _________________ 
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| _Lothario_ | PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:37 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 7:46 am Posts: 528 Website: http://www.facebook.com/spreadloveders Location: US | | Shame only comes from within. If you approach women with malicious intent, then of course your reputation will be an accurate representation of who you are.
In college, this could be a good thing anyway. If you approach a lot of women, it could come off as a sign of confidence, or it could give you a reputation as a creep. If you don't care, then only the positive matters.
Your opinion is the most important part of your reality. If you think what you did was creepy, it probably was. If you think what you did was awesome, it was awesome. Follow your intuition to determine results.
Rejection doesn't matter. Don't take this to an extreme and start stalking women, but don't let rejection from women deter you from trying. Make sure to try different things to figure out what works for you and what doesn't. Stay away from the "doesn't." _________________ Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
Spread Love
-Ders
www.facebook.com/spreadloveders
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| Rockets88 | PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 4:03 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2012 6:08 pm Posts: 266 | | It really depends on the size of the college. If your in a small college u could possibly build a reputation for being that creepy guy. If your in a large college the chances u see the girl u approached again are very slim.
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