| If you got nothing to talk about or are not in mood to talk, or aren't a very talkative person like myself, play your game by that way. When I want to approach a girl and the situation is simply not for a lot of talking I go in to take what I want. Examples
me: hey girl, can I ask you something?
her: yeah
me: i just saw you... and you're pretty. do you have facebook?
her: yes i do
me: whats your name?
she introduces herself
i introduce myself
me: it was nice to meet you *kiss on the cheek* hear you later
This shit works 80 percent of time for me. I do this whenever I notice a girl and have nothing else to say, and it works best with 3 seconds rule. I see her, she sees me. I walk towards her immediately, but confidently, like james bond.
Now usually when somebody just sees you and start walking towards immediately you wherever you are you keep looking at them because somethings gonna happen, so they do this to. I usually put on a small smile while walking towards them, which in most cases brings recation in them.
They keep looking and smile also, or some girls make a "sexy look" with wider opened eyes and holding their glasses pulled by their faces and just wait for my move. I like this second reaction, it fucking turns me on and I know I am in, and when I get this second reaction I usually game the girl for longer and get better results. When you talk to them you talk them normally and confidently, low pitched voice, no fatal words or any shit like that and not many exaggerated expressions on your face, body language or tonality. Just a cool, confident communication, asking what you want and being confident about it, but not overly serious. I don't know how to explain this situation.
The way you should go about this can be described like asking somebody hey, what time is it? Everybody's gonna tell you. Just think how you behave when you do this and apply it to this approach.
80% of success for me, I usually end up with facebook, sometimes I even get number with it and sometimes it prolongs into a bigger conversation. After applying this i realized this pretty much resembles an old strategy that david deangelo described in one of his books. When you go towards a girl, make a small talk, turn like you're gonna go away, then you turn back and ask if she has an email, then while they're writing it down you ask for their number too. Sometimes they gonna give their number too sometimes they won't, you learn to sense this.
If she rejects you with something like "I don't have facebook" I used to reply with well give your mobile phone number, which rarely resulted with success. It's best to hassle her here with "what, you don't have electricity at home?"
Cause on of the biggest mistakes with us guys that are not very talkative is we usually come on too strong without even realizing it. You gotta sometimes think it the way if somebody just came up to you and it was not a female and started requiring things from you, you would feel uncomfortable, get pissed off, bored or whatever.
You gotta get your swagger right, never show neediness nor weakness and have confidence dripping of your ass.
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