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Is it general opinion that PUA's moved away from canned openers?
If not, can anyone give some good fresh openers? I am reading The Game, but girls study and talk about this stuff. They might know about the openers.
I ask because I am having a fucking hard time opening at bars.
When I first started, I always used canned openers.
I do now on occasion. Use ones that aren't "popular"...
Love/in love is always a good one. To be honest, if the initial connection takes palce - I use the three-second rule and approach immediately. Smile, confidence and immediate escelation if she's receptive - and if you walk with purpose as if you're preying on her, then smile in the process to un-creep the scene... you can use the aggressive openers (overt sexual chemistry will dictate comments about scent, pulse, the kiss of a man on her neck as you breathe on her neck and whisper in her ear... It's more about the vibe I get from her, moreso than the lines I've memorized from years ago...
Frankly, now days, it's more of a reflex, I just drop from thread to thread and manipulate the fluff time accordingly - always trying to determine how and when to phase shift.