Hey all.
Been off here for a while after a killer break up - but I'm back on track now
I need to know howes the best way to approach this girl. A few years ago she worked in a drinking hole I used to visit. Would talk a little and share stories and would talk while she was on her smoke break. I sused to lend her a few dvds also, by the way I never caught her name.
I didn't think she would see me as anything but a friend/just being freindly as its her job - but my girlfriend at the time said she kept checking me out.
She left and I dint see her for a long time. I'm pretty sure I seen her in the supermarket once witha possible BF.
I went out for a family meal and she worked in that very restruant. When I was at the bar she did try to get my attention, I was in a foul mood and a little shy infront of family so didn't say anything. I'm not sure if she tried to get my attention to say hello or if It was more. I feel a spark/chemistry so am read I will do is going to be baised.
Anyway its got to the point where I have to know. The only other girls I have felt like this about I fell in love with when we got together.
What's the best approach. The restruant closes down at night and they have some jazz bands playing. I was thinking of going along to socialize and hopefully see her there. if she is there I was intending to go direct and say words to the effect of 'your the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and would like to get to know you better outside youe working enviroment'
I knwo most of the time when you have oneitis or a crush on a bar tender that they usually feel the same. However I just need to know if she does - feel like I'm missing a chance.
Help please!
CHAT